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My boyfriend and I made love for the first time a couple of days ago and although it wasn't my first time it hurt REALLY REALLY BAD... what I need help with is the fact that after the event it hurt me to pee and I also started bleeding... and its only a msll amount but is constant... I'm scared that maybe something went wrong... please help...
After my first time it killed me 2, I bled for 3 days. So it is normal. I was extreamly sore. It even hurt for me the seccond time and I bleed then 2. So I would just give it some time but if it does not seem 2 get better after a week I would go see a doctor just to make sure everything is OK.
Go to the Doctor- Simple as that good luck!Quote:
Originally Posted by luvabubble
If you are sure it is not your period, you are probably just a little grazed (if it hurt that bad-what were you two doing lol!) Don't panic too much, have a chat with your dr, he will be able to advise best.
You said this wasn't your first time, but it is your first time with your boyfriend. He might be slightly larger than what you are use to. You could have torn something, which would be the reason you hurt when you pee and for the blood. From my experience my husband is large and if we don't ease into things I have a tendency to tear. Although they are small tears and I rarely bleed I know I have torn because it burns when I pee. Next time you have sex make sure to ease into things and have plenty of foreplay to get you ready.
If you are still worried it might be something else my best advice would be to talk to the doctor.
If you hadn't broken the hymen your first time, you may have broken it this time... call your doctor if it worries you. It may not relieve the pain, but you will feel less stressed if he/she tells you everything is OK.
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