Ok so I have been living with Pete for the last two months (since Isla was born) and the last two weeks have been difficult. Been arguing loads about alsorts of things - but he will never compromise, always expects me to go with what he wants and will never talk of us as a family. Its always about him. Never 'We' just 'I' and when I do back down and agree (only on certain things I feel reasonable to do so) he then gives me the whole "but thats not you - thats not what you want".
I have consequently moved back to my mums because I did not want isla in an arguing environment - its not right or fair.
Every time we have some space and then meet to talk he is very negative - always saying "Its not going to work, It's not going to work" "It's not what I want" - but then he will change his mind just afterwards - only to change his mind again and then again. Its been left that he does not how he feels about me so I said that I could not be left dangling on a thread like last time - I needed to go forth and get on with my life because Isla is more important and we are soon to be made homeless as my mums house in on the market and there is nothing the council can do until the house is sold and even then it would mean a hostell!
I feel like I am back right where I started and really do not understnd where all this has come from with Pete! I justr don't get it. Everything was fine up until a couple of weeks ago and things have just gone down hill.
Please help me!