Long story short, I'm 20, my boyfriend is 24, we live together in upstate NY in a relationship of about 2 years. We love each other very much. I have always had a dream of being on the NASCAR circuit (I know, weird for a girl) and I have had my heart set on going to NASCAR Tech in North Carolina. This fall, my dream will become a reality. However my boyfriend refuses to accompany me and knows as well as I do, I will probably get a job in a NASCAR garage and not want to come back to NY. I don't have anyone here aside from parents. I'm not a really social person so I don't have a lot of close friends and the one close friend I do have, well she's moving with me for an internship in Charlotte. I currently race dirt track cars and racing of all kinds has always been my life. This is something I have made a decision on. My future comes first and I cannot let a relationship hold me back. It hurts so bad to leave him. How do I deal with this? He tells me that once winter is over he will be leaving me to save himself of the heartbreak in September. I won't be able to pay rent by myself and save for a new place in NC if he does this. I know I will manage but it will be harder. I'm just so confused, I know what I want to do, but to get it, I must leave the one I love. I just need advice, I know what I'm doing I know how to go about it, but I don't know how to deal with my emotions.