Hi everyone, going to try and keep this short. I need some advice, because I've hit a rut and seriously need some change, but don't know where to go or what to do.
Simply put, I've been married for 7 years and have two small boys. I love my family with all my heart, so there is no unhappiness there. My wife and I are finacially secure, but we could be doing better, and that's where the problem is. I work full time retail and she works part time as a nurse. Doing this provides us with just enough money to live within our means. We own both of our cars and the only debt we carry is our mortgage. That should make me happy right?
The problem is, we never go out or do anything. I mean never. We avoid daycare by working on alternate days, so days off are spent watching the kids, but there is little money to do things with and where I live, the winter is extreamly cold, so staying inside is a must. And when she comes home from work, we get an hour or two to watch TV before it's time for bed. Seven days a week its like this.
I can opt for a promotion to increase our income by an additional 30%, but in order to do so means I have to commit time that would require us to be on an unbalanced schedule and thus would require daycare, which she is against. I feel selfish thinking about taking a promotion that would give us the resources to get out and enjoy things. Then again, my life right now has become increasingly boring. Thanks in advance