I'm only 18 now so I am not thinking of having a baby any time soon. Though I have no idea when to have a baby (before its too late) and what will happen after a have a baby.

Well at the moment I have just finished my schooling and just started my career in real estate. Ive been with my boyfriend since well FOREVER and we love each other very much, and we haven't been on very many holidays and we are now currently buying a house.

If I was to have a baby now what will happen to my
JOB
RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BOYFRIEND
SOCIAL LIFE
MY FUTURE
MY BODY
CAN A BABY RUIN YOUR WHOLE LIFE?

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What age is a good age for a girl to have a baby without her looking like one of those 15 year old girls with a pram? I was thinking 22??

Cheers

When it feels right for you.
A baby does not have to ruin your life if you are ready for it and it is planned.

I honestly do not believe that age matters that much. It depends on where you are in your life. My husband and I are 25 and we have our first son, he is three months old now, and our lives have changed quite a bit, but not for the worst. Some things that we had to give up, late nights out, going away/out on a whim etc, were well worth it. I can't imagine my life without him. As nicki143 said a baby does not have to ruin your life, I think that my baby has made my life awesome!

I work still go out with friends and find time for me