Originally Posted by Xrayman
Chrissy, people are trying to give you a response-no one here judges or hold grudges against anyone, you asked for our opinion-you got it, do you want us to say "Go for it, screw your relationship-because I'm sure your man would LOVE to have sex with another man? " most of us wont do that-we are generally well rounded sensual and sexual people here. But most advice is not about stuffing-up relationships, it's mostly about improving sexual relations and communication.
Your man says "no", back off, stop the whining and stop trying to convince him that he should do it. Thats called BAD COMMUNICATION, it makes for BAD SEX.
Please try to accept the answers/opinions, make use or not of them and move on.
cheers.