Don't be upset DenverMami143
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Originally Posted by DenverMami143
I've recently been dating this guy I've known for almost 6 years. We've always gotten along really well and used to date when I was a lot younger. We stopped talking for a couple of years while we were both with other people. We reunited about 6 months ago and hit it off even better than it was before. I know he cares a lot for me and he says he loves me more than once a day. Just a few days ago he broke it off and told me that he just wasn't ready for the commitment thing because he would put off his friends sometimes and hang out with me or he'd put me off to be with them. He said that he was only doing it to be fair to me and he didn't want to disappoint me by cancelling plans to hang out with the boys. He says he's not being a good boyfriend and that he's not treating me like he's used to treating a girlfriend. Are we going to be together soon? I talked to him yesterday and he was so nice as if nothing had changed and we were still together. Should I ask him back out or will he ask me to be together again? I miss him like crazy and I want to know if he is thinking about me or moving onto something else. He's one guy I could easily picture myself marrying, he's so sweet and we have never even really fought about anything I know we're both so happy and content when we're spending time together. I just don't get it! I don't like the reason he gave me for breaking it off and I don't know if he's being honest or not. (if it helps his dob is 10-28-79 and mine's 12-20-82) Please help me! :(
It always happens in relationships. You can ask him why he is acting that way. I rememeber, I had to break off my relationship, cause she was planing to convert me to her religion. I never could open up to her about my objection to it, and I just had to tell her that I was a changed man, and I was seeing someone else. I literally had to lie, which I hate the most, and you know that one lie leads to another. It was not easy, you know. I still miss her, and we are still friends. But if she would ever seriously ask me about the reason, I would have told her. It is surely the communication that makes it work out. Trust me! All men are not liars.
Just open up and ask him for a friendly date. Just ask him what's wrong, and assure him that you'd understand whatever he says, even if he is seeing someone else. At least you'll be able to move on without a doubt...
Good luck... :)