My Ex boyfriend said he's not over his ex so we broke up, what should I do ?
Hi Everyone - I was in a relationship with a guy for a month he had been chasing me for 4 months but I wasn't sure as didn't think a guy could like me that much..! We started seeing each other and would make sure to meet me 2 or 3 times a week and was really nice to me but he finished with me recently and said he was not ready for anything serious at the moment and said he really enjoyed our time together and wishes that he was over his ex.. and he said if it was a few months down the line it could have been different that it was bad timing, that he would love to be over his ex..
She called it off with him about 8 months ago as there was family death and she couldn't cope with having a boyfriend after that. I realised after he said this that I really liked him and that I have never meet anyone like him even after a month as we got to know each other very well and got close. I said I would see him around and he said of course we will meet out, and he might even buy me a drink. I would like your advice on what to do and what he is feeling?
Has an ex boyfriend come back?
Hey - my ex boyfriend broke up with me after a month we got on really well together he would ring me and he took me out and called to see me during the week and meet the weekend, he would text me to say how he was looking forward to meeting me but, he finished with me recently and said he was not ready for anything serious at the moment and said he really enjoyed our time together and wishes that he was over his ex.. and he said if it was a few months down the line it could have been different that it was bad timing, that he would love to be over his ex..
She called it off with him about 8 months ago as there was family death and she couldn't cope with having a boyfriend after that. I realised after he said this that I really liked him and that I have never meet anyone like him even after a month as we got to know each other very well and got close. I said I would see him around and he said of course we will meet out, and he might even buy me a drink.
I am just wondering has anyone got back with an ex boyfriend after he gets over an ex and was happy together again? If so, what made him get over his ex girlfriend?
Is my ex-boyfriend afraid of getting hurt again?
QUOTE=Walla12]Hey - my ex boyfriend broke up with me after a month we got on really well together he would ring me and he took me out and called to see me during the week and meet the weekend, he would text me to say how he was looking forward to meeting me but, he finished with me recently and said he was not ready for anything serious at the moment and said he really enjoyed our time together and wishes that he was over his ex..and he said if it was a few months down the line it could have been different that it was bad timing, that he would love to be over his ex..
She called it off with him about 8 months ago as there was family death and she couldnt cope with having a boyfriend after that. I realised after he said this that i really liked him and that i have never meet anyone like him even after a month as we got to know each other very well and got close. I said i would see him around and he said of course we will meet out, and he might even buy me a drink.
I am just wondering has anyone got back with an ex boyfriend after he gets over an ex and was happy together again? If so, what made him get over his ex girlfriend?[/QUOTE]
Above is my story- update since then - I meet my ex-boyfriend out in a night club, he saw me and came flying over to me and hugged me and we ended up kissing which I was shocked about as I didn't think he would go there especially since he said before that he was not over his ex-girlfriend and wasn't ready for a serious relationship. He asked me if I wanted to leave the night club so we did and we went back to my place.
He told me that he didn't get back with his ex that he had'nt seen her since they broke up that she ignored him after it finished he said he didn't lie to me about anything. He said I looked very well and that he missed me and that we "got on like a house on fire" he stayed the night and I dropped him to his friends house next morning and he gave me a kiss and said he would text me. I text him but the text didn't get to him until late as I got a report to say it was delivered. He told me earlier that night that his battery wasn't working right and he was going to a match that day so probably the charge was gone. But he hasn't text me only for my texts which he replied to.
I think he is scared of getting hurt again I know he likes me I don't know if I should text him and ask what is happing between us? Please help