Why this married man acts this way towards me? He is very strange... HELP!
Well, I will try to be as brief as possible. I know there are a lot of questions about married men and cheaters but my story is a little different. I met this man, that goes to my work, 1 year ago. He was always very respectful, so much that I didn't like him at all, I thought he was gay, lol. After a few times more he began to flirt with me. He asked how old I was (I am 24, he is 36), my name and all that. I kind of felt strange like I couldn't believe he was flirting with me? I am beautiful by the way, since there are always a lot of men telling me things. He looks shy and very serious so I found it strange. Then time went by, he asked for my FB I accepted him and then began to chat. He told me I was beautiful and very friendly and that I liked him very much, and asked if I wanted to go out with him. I told him you have a wife and I have a boyfriend... so I really don't know, that's wrong. Before judging me let me tell you that his wife is unfaithful to him, they are just together for the money and for their kid of 11 years. I know she is unfaithful not because he told me, just because everybody knows it.
Ok the thing is she was travelling with their son, we went out, had sex (just a fling I would say) both knowing that it was going just to be sex, without compromise. That didn't happened that fast. Itry to knew him a little more before doing that. I accepted since he likes me a lot, he is like my dream man. He is sweet, and looks like he is searching for something more than sex. Anyway after that I never called him, contacted him, nothing! I wanted to act like I didn't care although I really fell for him! He was very sweet and treated me like a princess that night, we talked a lot after sex like for 2 hours... he cuddled with me, hugged and kissed me a lot, etc. I was like ? We like the same things, think the same way... Well, he went to my work (a movie rental store) like always, he always says hello to me and all that. The day of the fling he asked me when we could repeat it again, I told him I didn't know. Now when he sees me he always hugs me, give me a kiss and talks with me a lot. He looks a little sad when he sees me, I feel it, and sometimes he looks jealous when men talk to me. That happened 6 months ago, the other day he went and asked me again if we could go out. I told him that yes, but why after so much time? He told me he thought I was a pshycho. I was really mad since I NEVER acted that way. Although I'm really into him I always tried my best not to contact him and all that. I did sent some messages asking how he was and trying to tell him I wanted another fling but he ignored them. Well, the thing is he never called me or sent text messages that day.
My question is: why does he invited me to go out and then ignores it?
I don't understand anything at all. If he would want to use me he could be doing it already. Sometimes he looks like he just wants to talk to me about something but he looks scared. I know he doesn't love his wife anymore, he told me that and I believe him but he never talks bad about her. He is a gentleman after all. All married men and cheaters always talk bad about their wives. So, I'm getting crazy, I don't know what to thing, we have avery strong connection and I think he is very confused. Any help would be appreciated. ThankS!
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How can I have a fling without having any feelings?
Hi. I've had sex with this guy, he is married. At first I thought it was only going to be a fling just to have fun but after that I really fell for him and I do have feelings for him. I want to continuee seeing him although 6 months have passed and we haven't go out anymore. I understand the "without compromise" thing. I don't want to cause him problems or anything. He always sees me where I work, flirts with me and all that but seems like he is avoiding the sex situation... and it is very strange in a man and more when I do know I really like him. I don't pursue him at all, it was just one night, but I think there is something more and maybe he don't want to do it again after he said he wanted so we don't develop feelings for each other since we are very compatible in our personalities.