I want to let everybody know of a new interesting development I have seen in this topic.
First I'd like to apologize for twisting God's Word.
Second, God may not condemn it [sex outside of marriage] in his word, but he has given thousands of people the wisdom and understanding to know that it is wrong. I do not regret the decisions that I've made, but when my GF broke up with me I understood that even though God had told me "she is the woman I SHOULD marry" that doesn't mean I actually WILL marry her. I could still make mistakes and screw up and then things wouldn't turn out the way I THOUGHT. My GF and I are back together, but I almost really lost something special, and now I'm being more precautions than ever.
With that being said, if I have caused a brother to fall I must ask for forgiveness. And I must admit I was wrong to declare that sex outside of marriage was not wrong.