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  • May 30, 2007, 07:24 PM
    alexisb
    Pregnant one week after having abortion from precum?
    Hi there, I can't sleep or think about anything else right now, am I pregnant?
    I had an abortion and one week after that I had sex w/ my boyfriend, he didn`t inside, but I wonder if I can get pregnant from pre , I`ve heard precum doesn`t have enough sperm to get a woman pregnant. I just don`t know what to think, my friend said I can`t know it for sure unless I wait for another 2 weeks to take another pregnancy test (when it`ll be 5 weeks from my previous abortion and 4 weeks after I had sex with my bf) The thing is I need to know it as soon as possible, so if I get a pregnancy test and it comes out positive it can be a false positive, then how do I know for sure? Does an ultrasound gets me to know it? And the pre doesn`t really has enough sperms?? Pleaaaaaaseeeeeeeeeeee:(
  • May 30, 2007, 07:30 PM
    buggage
    If you do not want to get pregnant, you REALLY need to be using protection. Pre- DOES contain sperm, and it doesn't matter how much sperm there is, as it only takes one little swimmer to do the job. As far as when to take a test, I suggest that you call your doctor and ask them for the exact amount of time that you should wait. Taking a test too soon after a previous pregnancy will still register your hormones from that previous pregnancy. However, it could be from a current pregnancy as well. I sincerely hope that you aren't pregnant again. PLEASE be responsible and use protection from now on.
  • Jun 2, 2007, 02:03 PM
    misspixious
    It's definitely possible, I got pregnant that way. Use Protection if you plan to abort..
  • Jun 2, 2007, 02:06 PM
    danielnoahsmommy
    Apparently you did not learn a thing from your prior experience!
  • Jun 2, 2007, 02:12 PM
    bushg
    The whole time he is inside you he is droping sperm into you so... yes you can get pregnant, from pre, and during and after. If you don't believe us keep trying and you'll be having another abortion or a poor innocent unwanted baby.
  • Jun 3, 2007, 02:11 AM
    leilaa111
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alexisb
    Hi there, I can't sleep or think about anything else right now, am I preg?
    I had an abortion and one week after that i had sex w/ my bf, he didn`t inside, but i wonder if i can get preg from pre , i`ve heard precum doesn`t have enough sperm to get a woman preg. I just don`t know what to think, my friend said i can`t know it for sure unless I wait for another 2 weeks to take another preg test (when it`ll be 5 weeks from my previous abortion and 4 weeks after I had sex with my bf) The thing is I need to know it as soon as possible, so if i get a preg test and it comes out positive it can be a false positive, then how do I know for sure? does an ultrasound gets me to know it? and the pre doesn`t really has enough sperms????? pleaaaaaaseeeeeeeeeeee:(

    Yes yes yes you can get pregnet I'm sorry 2 say from pre come and I'm sorry 2 say you just had a abortion your not supposed to be having sex until 6weeks after its very dangerous for you right now to be having sex 1st of all stop having sex now and wait till your next period is due I'm not saying you are pregnet but precome 98percent and get you pregnet
  • Jun 5, 2007, 10:37 AM
    newlablover
    You just took an innocent baby out of the world, why would you be so ignorant to not be using protection?
  • Jun 10, 2007, 12:34 PM
    endlessecho
    It only takes one single sperm to get pregnant. What I want to know is, if you do not want a child and have already aborted at least one that we know of, why is it that you are not on birth control or making your boyfriend wear a condom? Not only would it be smarter, safer, wiser, but it's also cheaper then getting an abortion.
  • Aug 20, 2007, 08:36 AM
    0nelife2liv3
    l00k sweeti3 I completely see where you are coming from and no one knows your situation until they walk a mile in your shoes everyone is not perfect we make dumb choices in life not once but twice... some more then others... but I can only relate because I'm going thrue the same thing now I just had an abortion july21 and now it is aug20th and I still haven't had my period I only was bleeding the first 3 days after having my abortion my doctors told me don't have sex for 2 weeks or anything else and that I should have my period 2 weeks after the abortion... well anyway I had got my abortion on a sat that following sat me and my boyfriend had sex but he claims that he pulled out but us as women we never know they may buss in us then pull out and put a little bit on our skin some place to make us think they pulled out all we can ever do is take there word and its hard to start wearing condoms if you and your lover have been doing it for a long time with out one and who wants birth control it makes you have all these pregnant symthoms and get all fat trust me I had the shot I hated it and I was on that for 9 months after having my daughter I thought it would be the best but n0o0o it wasn't the only reason why I had a abortion was because my daughter is only one years old and she is a handful and at the time only I was working and I going to school to try to finish my career and everything and I thought that being pregnant would really slow me down. Me and him living together did not make the choice of an abortion and e good because when your sleeping in the bed and them hormons kick in its hard to control and at the same time I was thinking its only a week earlier what's the difference I'm no longer bleeding OK and I didn't start bleeding again or anything but I took a blood test because when you go back for your two weeks follow up anyway all they do is a pregnantcy test to make sure that you are not plus I had finished my medicine all the first three days that close you uterus back up and pervent any infections... GOSH I KNOW IM TALKING A lot!!
    But yea our dog seems to follow me around every time I'm pregnant and it had stopped for that week lol and no he is back to following me around again and I'm thinking that I may be pregnant again... goodness but the good thing is that if I am I'm going to keep it this time I just got saved yesterday so me and my boyfriend agreed on no sex until we get married and its time to live right this baby won't be a bastured. But my blood work didn't come back clear WOW That's WEIRED HUH? Blood work is suppose to be the most acureate right?
    But anyway whatever is going on don't worry leave it up to jesus because he is going to work it out!!
  • Aug 20, 2007, 08:42 AM
    Capuchin
    Oh my dear god. Abortions don't do any good for your insides you know?

    Please go down to the family planning clinic and get EDUCATED.

    Pretty soon you might not be able to have a baby, even if you want one. Protection is ALWAYS the better choice.
  • Aug 20, 2007, 10:08 AM
    endlessecho
    I can't help but agree with Capuchin. Why not just protect yourself and your partner? I mean, give me one GOOD reason not to?
  • Aug 20, 2007, 12:48 PM
    macksmom
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 0nelife2liv3
    l00k sweeti3 i completly see where u are coming from and no one knows your situation until they walk a mile in your shoes everyone is not perfect we make dumb choices in life not once but twice...some more then others......and its hard to start wearing condoms if you and your lover have been doing it for a long time with out one and who wants birth control it makes you have all these pregnant symthoms and get all fat trust me i had the shot i hated it....but anyways whatever is going on dont worry leave it up to jesus cus he is going to work it out!!!


    It's not that no one understands her position... what people are trying to express is OBVIOUSLY she is not ready for a baby if she just had an abortion... so why in the world, her or you for that matter would do the same thing that lead you to killing an innocent child, is beyond me... I am not trying to turn this into a pro-life vs pro-choice debate... just stating the facts... she's not ready for a baby, doesn't want one, it's not the baby's fault... if you are adult enough to have sex take the proper precautions or accept the responsibilities that can come from sex. I can't believe you would try and argue that "its hard to start wearing condoms if you and you lover have been doing it for a long time without one" or "birth control it makes you have all these pregnant symthoms and get all fat"... well either suck it up and wear a condom, or take pills, or take the shot, or stop having sex!. stop being so irresponsible and then try to defend it.

    As for the original question... obviously you will have to wait a bit longer before a pregnancy test would show up positive. I would consult your doctor and go from there. And please realize sex is more than a game.
  • Aug 20, 2007, 12:51 PM
    J_9
    Let us look at the date of the OP, it was almost 3 months ago. If there are any other questions to be asked, a new thread should be opened as this one is now closed.

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