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  • Nov 21, 2009, 12:29 AM
    shaneka
    Pregnancy and scared
    Yes I'm 4 weeks pregnant an I'm having bad cramps and I'm bleeding but I don think it is my period and the blood is coming out red but its turning brown.. can somebody please help me
  • Nov 21, 2009, 12:36 AM
    shaneka
    Pregnant an scared
    Is it OK to take a pill while your pregnant
  • Nov 21, 2009, 12:59 AM
    justcurious55

    That totally depends on the pill.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:03 AM
    justcurious55

    Are you sure you're pregnant? I only ask because hpt tests are barely reliable at this point. And seeing as there's no way you could tell exactly when you had conceived (since it may not necessarily be the day you had sex) it seems a little strange tha you could know already exactly how far along you are.

    Anyway, cramps and bleeding during pregnancy ALWAYS should be discussed with your dr.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:33 PM
    shaneka
    Yes I'm sure I have all the symptoms... im not sure executally how far along I am though... thanks
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:35 PM
    shaneka
    It's a pill called ocella because I'm having really bad cramps and pains so I was just wondering
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:40 PM
    rockie100

    Have you been to the Doc. Yet? You should be cunsulting them on this question and concern.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 01:55 PM
    artlady

    If you are pregnant and having cramps ,or any type of pain ,you need to see a doctor ASAP.
    Pain and cramping are not typical pregnancy symptoms.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 03:49 PM
    mamaof2boys

    Having all the symptoms does not mean youa re pregnant by any means. Have you taken an actual test or been to the dr? "pregnancy symptoms" can be caused by many different things. You need to take a test if you haven't.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:23 PM
    shaneka
    Ye sim sure I'm pregnant but my friiend tld me that its implantation bleeding
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:32 PM
    shaneka
    Tearing me apart
    Yes me and my boyfriend broke up for a couple of days before Halloween days for... so I went to a party and I had sex with this dude so now I'm pregnant... and he found out that I'm pregnant and he's mad and he thinks I cheated on him but I didn't.. and now we argue like everyday but I want him back but I don't think he wants me back but he calls me like everyday... what should I do because I really love him so much
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:38 PM
    mamaof2boys

    You still never answered the question, did you take a test? It could be implantation bleeding, it could be something totally different. It could be something serious. You need to call your doctor.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:55 PM
    talaniman
    I think you start with finding out if your really pregnant, and tell your parents.

    As for the boyfriend, I would be mad because you shagged another guy while on a break from an argument. That's not exactly a good way of showing love.

    Personally, I find it appalling you would be more worried about a dude, than the actions that got you in this mess.

    I think its time to leave the guys alone, and get some perspective on your own behavior, and what it means for your future, with whichever baby daddy who has to pay the support.
  • Nov 21, 2009, 04:59 PM
    shaneka
    Oh damn naw I isn't take the test yet imma take one tomorrow
  • Nov 21, 2009, 05:02 PM
    shaneka
    I didn't think nothing of it because we broked for good and he like we not together nomore... so I don't know why hell be mad because we won't together
  • Nov 21, 2009, 05:17 PM
    talaniman
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...lk-303157.html

    He obviously doesn't feel the same way. If it doesn't matter stop talking to him since this was a forever break up.

    By the way chat/text is hard for some of us to understand, so have mercy, please
  • Nov 22, 2009, 09:38 AM
    shaneka
    Is this something or not
    I been bleeding but I don't think its mii period so I'm thinking its implantation bleeding because when I 1st started to bleed it was brownish then light pink... an I have bad crampin and sharp pains in mii stomach an when I go to sleep I sleep with a pillow between mii legs and I lay on my side an the pain goes away but when I lay on mii stomach it hurts like hell... I need help
  • Nov 22, 2009, 09:48 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    ye sim sure im pregnant but my friiend tld me dat its implantation bleeding

    Please use complete words and sentences. This is not a chat room.

    Is your "friend" in the medical field? If so, she would know that implantation bleeding is not a medically proven fact.

    Have you taken a HPT yet?
  • Nov 22, 2009, 09:50 AM
    J_9
    You need to seek medical attention. Is it possible you have a tubal pregnancy?
  • Nov 22, 2009, 09:54 AM
    shaneka
    Mii appt isn't until dec.14 what is a tubal preganacy
  • Nov 22, 2009, 10:07 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    mii appt aint until dec.14 what is a tubal preganacy

    Do you mean "my appointment isn't until dec 14. What is a tubal pregnancy?"

    Please don't use chat speak.

    A tubal pregnancy is a pregnancy that occurs in the fallopian tubes. It can be life threatening if not treated properly.
  • Nov 22, 2009, 10:09 AM
    shaneka
    Yeah that is what I'm talking about and don't try and come off I can write how I won't to but thanks anyway
  • Nov 22, 2009, 10:12 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    yeah that is what im talking about and dont try and come off i can write how i wont to but thanks anyways

    Please read the TOS... we don't allow chat speak here.
  • Nov 22, 2009, 10:14 AM
    shaneka
    Okay
  • Nov 22, 2009, 10:14 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Use the best English you are capable of. "Chat speak", all caps, lack of punctuation, etc. can be annoying, and will frequently result in the post being either unanswered or removed.
    Found here... https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/faq.ph...#faq_faq_rules
  • Nov 22, 2009, 10:26 AM
    shaneka

    No she is not in medical field... and no I haven't
  • Nov 22, 2009, 10:30 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    Yes im 4 weeks pregnant

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shaneka View Post
    no i haven't

    Please tell us how you know you are 4 weeks pregnant if you haven't taken a HPT and your doctors visit isn't until December 14.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...ot-418299.html
  • Nov 22, 2009, 11:39 AM
    Mymama

    See your OB/GYN asap!
  • Nov 22, 2009, 01:36 PM
    stormey44

    If I was you I would make a trip to the er if it's a tubal it can be very dangrous
  • Nov 22, 2009, 05:36 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    There are too many threads started by the original poster, I am closing this one
    In future posts, don't use text talk ( or they will be delted) and keep it all to one thread
  • Nov 24, 2009, 04:53 PM
    talaniman

    Quote:

    ... so I went to a party and I had sex with this dude so now I'm pregnant...
    Depends on who's the father. You better just tell him sooner rather than later.
  • Nov 24, 2009, 05:16 PM
    Cat1864
    How old are you?

    First, you confirm the pregnancy and get started on prenatal care so that you can have a healthy child.

    Second, I guess you don't think your ex-boyfriend is the father since you have said he knows. Get in touch with the male you had sex with after you broke up with your boyfriend. Tell him straight out that he may be a father. If you are concerned that he might get physical, have an impartial third party mediate.

    Third, you hop from your ex-boyfriend's bed to some other guy's bed when you have been broken up for only a couple of days and you wonder why he might be upset or question the paternity of the child?

    Fourth, grow up and realize that you have been making some very poor choices. However, there is always a chance to work on making better choices in the future. Time for you to show some maturity in how you make decisions affecting your life and the child's.
  • Nov 24, 2009, 05:37 PM
    Devorameira
    1) Go to the doctor or clinic and get a pregnancy test.
    2) IF it's positive, tell the "dude" you slept with during the break.
    3) IF it's positive, start your proper prenatal care immediately.
    4) You sound young, so you may want to decide whether you should adopt the baby out to a nice couple.

    Good luck with your decision.
  • Nov 24, 2009, 05:58 PM
    shaneka
    I'm 17 years old about to be 18 in two months. And no my ex boy-friend is not the father it's the other dude. I want to keep my baby
  • Nov 24, 2009, 06:37 PM
    shaneka

    Because I didn't have sex with mii ex for a while
  • Nov 25, 2009, 07:39 AM
    talaniman

    If he is your ex, and not the baby's father, why worry about telling him anything? Its not even his business.
  • Nov 25, 2009, 10:29 AM
    jaime90

    I'm giving a HARSHNESS disclaimer because this just sickens me...

    I do not blame this guy for not wanting you back. Just a few days after breaking up with him, you found someone else and had sexual relations with him... Now you have to put up with the consequences of your actions. Why would he take you back when you think you are pregnant with another guy's kid that you had sex with a few days after breaking up with him?? Leave him alone, I hate to say this, but he honestly deserves better in a relationship.
    Oh, and you don't love him. Love is commitment. You couldn't be committed. You may FEEL like you love him, but love isn't a feeling, it's a choice- and you chose to have sex with someone else. You don't love him.
  • Nov 25, 2009, 11:29 AM
    shaneka
    One of my friends told him that I'm pregnant.. you right I don't have to tell him nothing

    He tells me I'm in the wrong an he calls me cursing me out all the time then hanging up in my face but he do tells me he misses me but I'm not gone stress myself out nomore over my ex
  • Nov 30, 2009, 05:55 PM
    shaneka
    Counting the dates
    How do you count your weeks of pregnancy
  • Nov 30, 2009, 06:23 PM
    justcurious55

    Figure out about when you conceived and count from there. You may need your dr's help figuring out when you conceived if you're not sure when you might have. They'll be able to tell, or at least give you a pretty accurate estimate, by the ultrasound how many weeks along you are.

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