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2 months late HELP!

Okay the last time I had my period was in August. August 24th to be exact. My husband and I had sex right before I ovulated and during the correct time I was ovulating. I didn't get my period for the month of September. So I went to the doctor and the urine test they said came back negative. Its now the month of October and no sign of my period. Nothing! I need help what should I do? Thanks for any response!

Take another test, either a home pregnancy test or a blood test at your doctors.

It could have been too early to detect last time.

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

Take another test, either a home pregnancy test or a blood test at your doctors.

It could have been too early to detect last time.

Thanks so much! That really is helpful. It really is!

Altenweg is correct I went through the same sort of thing. I had a period the beginning August and when I was next due one it did not come so I took a test straight away and it came back negative, I then took another one 3 weeks later and it came back positive and I am now nearly 12 weeks pregnant. So that could be the case with you.

Katt86 thank you so so much! I have not taken another test because I honestly thought that the doctors is the most accurate so I was like whatever and didn't even bother taking one! But is there anyway I can get in contact with u in case I have any questions. Like do you have a myspace or something?

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Katt86 thank you so so much! I have not taken another test because I honestly thought that the doctors is the most accurate so I was like whatever and didn't even bother taking one! But is there anyway I can get in contact with u in case I have any questions. Like do you have a myspace or something?

Why not keep your questions on this thread?

I wanted too ask her things because if I am pregnant her and I would not be too far away from one another in pregnancy wise that's all. Do you have any children?

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I wanted too ask her things because if I am preggo her and I would not be too far away from one another in pregnancy wise that's all. Do you have any children?

Yes, I have two.

We have a OB nurse on this site, she's wonderful. If you have any questions we're here to answer them. That's what we do. :)

First find out if you're pregnant, then go from there. :)

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Why not keep your questions on this thread?

OUCH! I am not trying to be rude or start anything Alty, but maybe she just wanted some one on one information. I don't know, I am just saying because when I found out I was pregnant.. I only wanted to talk to a select few about things before everything was 100 percent okay!

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OUCH! I am not trying to be rude or start anything Alty, but maybe she just wanted some one on one information. I don't know, I am just saying because when I found out I was pregnant.. I only wanted to talk to a select few about things before everything was 100 percent okay!

Thanks karimelia that's exactly what I was trying too do I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings you know!

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Thanks karimelia that's exactly what I was trying too do I didn't mean to hurt anyones feelings you know!

NO problem. I wasn't trying to start anything with anyone... I just could kind of tell that by your posts. If you are pregnant, congrats in advance... I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first and it is both exciting and scary at the same time! :)

We keep all questions and answers on the board to insure accuracy.

Hi... I'm J, the OB nurse.

In reply to your question, I have to agree with the others. Take a HPT using first morning urine. If that comes back negative as well, then it may be time for a blood test.

Aaronswife and Karmiella;

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I agree take another hpt and let us know what it said and if so congrats

Altenweg you didn't have to be a about it we were stating our opinions and its better NOT too follow the rules all the time. Thanks for your help before but its no longer needed nor wanted. So stop writing me. Pull something up on that!

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NO problem. I wasn't trying to start anything with anyone... I just could kind of tell that by your posts. If you are pregnant, congrats in advance... I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first and it is both exciting and scary at the same time! :)

Really? So when did you find out you were pregnant exactly I always thought I couldn't get pregnant. My ex fiancée and I always tried for a baby and we had no luck and my husband and I have been having unprotected sex for a little over a year and I never ended up pregnant. Than now this! So I do hope so. Was your pregnancy planned or unexcepted? :)

Please stop being rude, we are here to help. An apology is warrented now!

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Altenweg you didn't have to be a about it we were stating our opinions and its better NOT too follow the rules all the time. Thanks for your help before but its no longer needed nor wanted. So stop writing me. Pull something up on that!

Don't follow the rules, don't continue on the site. Your choice.

You should have read all the site rules and regulations before you started posting. I guess you also missed the part about this being a public site. Once you post your thread is public property. You don't get to censor who answers your thread, so no, I won't go away, I have the right to post here.

What's going to happen when your child is a teenager and asks if he can drive drunk or smoke pot? Are you going to tell him that it's okay not to follow the rules all the time?

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Don't follow the rules, don't continue on the site. Your choice.

You should have read all the site rules and regulations before you started posting. I guess you also missed the part about this being a public site. Once you post your thread is public property. You don't get to censor who answers your thread, so no, I won't go away, I have the right to post here.

What's going to happen when your child is a teenager and asks if he can drive drunk or smoke pot? Are you going to tell him that it's okay not to follow the rules all the time?

Maybe, maybe not. If I do than I guess that will have too be my problem not yours. And I'm sure your not perfect and you've broken rules before. So Stop acting like you never have. And what I did was not INTENTIONAL it was a mistake! I don't see why your making it such a big dang deal seriously get over yourself and grow up. I have better things too do than sit around and argue with someone that I never even meet before in MY life. Less alone argue with you. And like I said to karimelia I was not trying too start a fight or hurt anyone's feelings and you've tooken it and blown it out of the water. I'm done. Have a nice night

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Maybe, maybe not. If I do than I guess that will have too be my problem not yours. And I'm sure your not perfect and you've broken rules before. So Stop acting like you never have. And what I did was not INTENTIONAL it was a mistake! I don't see why your making it such a big dang deal seriously get over yourself and grow up. I have better things too do than sit around and argue with someone that I never even meet before in MY life. Less alone argue with you. And like I said to karimelia I was not trying too start a fight or hurt anyones feelings and you've tooken it and blown it out of the water. I'm done. Have a nice night

You started the argument, not me.

I pointed out the rules so you'd know. I wasn't rude about it, mean about it, or condescending about it. I simply pointed out why your request was not okay.

You said it was a mistake, that's fine, we all make them. All I did was tell you that you made a mistake, in a nice way. Now you're all pi$$y about it.

I have grown up dear, maybe it's time for you to take your own advice.

I didn't blow it out of the water, you did. Don't you realize that?

I was willing to help, but now you're on your own. I'm sure a few people may respond to your post, because not everyone reads the previous posts, but most people, if they're smart, won't bother to give advice to someone that doesn't seem to want it.

Good luck to you. I hope you grow up before you become a mom.

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Originally Posted by danielnoahsmommy

please stop being rude, we are here to help. an apology is warrented now!

First of all I was not angry about you pointing out the rules I was angry about the way you did it! You can tell someone something is wrong by simply saying aarons wife the rules say you can't do that, instead you acted like miss francy pants and pull up stuff and was like SEE ITS Against THE RULES! That's what I didn't like the way you proceeded too go about it. :|

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First of all I was not angry about you pointing out the rules I was angry about the way you did it! You can tell someone something is wrong by simply saying aarons wife the rules say you can't do that, instead you acted like miss francy pants and pull up stuff and was like SEE ITS AGANIST THE RULES! That's what I didn't like the way you proceeded too go about it. ?:|

I did it that way because it was the most quick way to do it.

It wasn't meant to put anyone down.

I've been on this site a long time. We have many people that come here, break the rules and when you try to explain they get irate. So instead of posting that it's against the rules, I figured I'd just post the rules.

It seems that no matter how we go about it, people just don't want to accept that they made a mistake.

Trust me, I broke many rules when I first joined. Heck, I still do at times. We're all human, no problem. The rule you broke is one that we use to protect this site. If you go offline with someone on this site, or solicit them to go offline, and then that person gives you advice that harms you, that would reflect negatively on this site. This site is wonderful for a reason, the large part being that we care about the people that post here and want to make sure they get the most accurate information there is.

If you keep the questions on your thread then everyone can see them and the experts can correct any misinformation that you may get.

Just because someone is pregnant doesn't mean they know everything about pregnancy.

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First of all I was not angry about you pointing out the rules I was angry about the way you did it! You can tell someone something is wrong by simply saying aarons wife the rules say you can't do that, instead you acted like miss francy pants and pull up stuff and was like SEE ITS AGANIST THE RULES! That's what I didn't like the way you proceeded too go about it. ?:|

She could have just reported your post and let the Moderators tell you the rules with a warning that wouldn't have been as nice. Would you have preferred that?

Back to your op, I have a friend who knew she was pregnant for three months before a blood test finally confirmed it. Eight urine test and 3 blood tests before the positve. Because of prior pregnancies, she knew how her body felt when pregnant.

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I did it that way because it was the quickest way to do it.

It wasn't meant to put anyone down.

I've been on this site a long time. We have many people that come here, break the rules and when you try to explain they get irate. So instead of posting that it's against the rules, I figured I'd just post the rules.

It seems that no matter how we go about it, people just don't want to accept that they made a mistake.

Trust me, I broke many rules when I first joined. Heck, I still do at times. We're all human, no problem. The rule you broke is one that we use to protect this site. If you go offline with someone on this site, or solicit them to go offline, and then that person gives you advice that harms you, that would reflect negatively on this site. This site is wonderful for a reason, the large part being that we care about the people that post here and want to make sure they get the most accurate information there is.

If you keep the questions on your thread then everyone can see them and the experts can correct any misinformation that you may get.

Just because someone is pregnant doesn't mean they know everything about pregnancy.

Yeah I understand completely sorry just thought you were being rude. But take it that you didn't. Thanks. :)

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Yeah I understand completely sorry just thought you were being rude. But take it that you didn't. Thanks. :)

I'm sorry too. I really didn't mean for it to come out as rude, it was more a "for your info" sort of thing.

Now, back to the topic at hand. :)

Do you have a pregnancy test bought already?

I would recommend getting the dual pack. They're a bit more expensive but still cheaper then buying two separate tests. This way you can take one, and if the results are negative you can wait a week and take another.

I would recommend, and I think that J9 already did, for you to start taking prenatal vitamins, just in case you are expecting. The vitamins won't hurt you if you're not pregnant, but they are important for the baby if you are.

Let us know what the results are. We'll be waiting. :)

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Cartoons are SO cute!

Hee hee, "can't we all just get along?" :rolleyes::)

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Cartoons are SO cute!

LOL... thankyou :)

Sorry for hijacking your thread , just tryin' to add to the peace :)

Seriously though stick around , you'll love it here once you get used to it :cool:

Edit: And Alty's a lovely person.

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LOL...............thankyou :)

Sorry for hijacking your thread , just tryin' to add to the peace :)

Seriously though stick around , you'll love it here once you get used to it :cool:

Ahem. And Alty is really a nice person.

You forgot to mention that.

Okay, now I'm breaking the rules. :o

Insulting other members is frowned upon here at AMHD. We are only trying to help you from a professional standpoint. We keep all questions and answers on the board so that we can assure you are getting a proper response to your question. You wouldn't want bad or dangerous advice given that could endanger the health of you and/or your baby. By keeping all questions and answers on the board, we can monitor the quality of the advice given. Also, others that come here learn from the questions posted and the advice given.

I'm glad all worked out, but remember, we here at AMHD volunteer our own free time to answer questions. We are NOT paid employees, i.e. I just got home from a busy 12 hour shift delivering babies... I do this because I like to help, not because I am getting paid.

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Insulting other members is frowned upon here at AMHD. We are only trying to help you from a professional standpoint. We keep all questions and answers on the board so that we can assure you are getting a proper response to your question. You wouldn't want bad or dangerous advice given that could endanger the health of you and/or your baby. By keeping all questions and answers on the board, we can monitor the quality of the advice given. Also, others that come here learn from the questions posted and the advice given.

I'm glad all worked out, but remember, we here at AMHD volunteer our own free time to answer questions. We are NOT paid employees, i.e. I just got home from a busy 12 hour shift delivering babies....I do this because I like to help, not because I am getting paid.

I know. And that's why it was worked out. But like I said last night I thought she was being rude! But turns out that she wasn't. But no need too bring yesterdays problems into today's! :D

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I know. And that's why it was worked out. But like I said last night I thought she was being rude! But turns out that she wasn't. But no need too bring yesterdays problems into todays! :D

You are absolutely correct... no need to worry today about what happened yesterday.

Have you taken another HPT yet? Remember, and I can't stress it enough, to take it using first morning urine as the pregnancy hormone (HCG) is more concentrated in early morning urine. As the day progresses, and you eat and drink, the urine gets diluted. This is why many women get false negatives.

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Really? So when did you find out you were pregnant exactly I always thought I couldn't get pregnant. My ex fiancee and I always tried for a baby and we had no luck and my husband and I have been having unprotected sex for a little over a year and I never ended up preg. Than now this! So I do hope so. Was your pregnancy planned or unexcepted? :)

Well... good luck to you. I really hope that you become a mother sometime soon :) My pregnancy was a little bit of both. We were basically just seeing how things went! Then when we decided to start playing it safe since I had just got cut to part time... that's when we found out we were pregnant.
As with all the others... just brush it off. I have gotten into it with a couple different people and honestly... you will find the "group" that you mesh with and the "group" that you will try to avoid!
Just let me know how everything goes... XXXXXXX fingers crossed!

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Well... good luck to you. I really hope that you become a mother sometime soon :) My pregnancy was a little bit of both. We were basically just seeing how things went! Then when we decided to start playing it safe since I had just got cut to part time... thats when we found out we were pregnant.
As with all the others... just brush it off. I have gotten into it with a couple different people and honestly... you will find the "group" that you mesh with and the "group" that you will try to avoid!
Just let me know how everything goes... XXXXXXX fingers crossed!

Thanks and I will! Personal question. How old are you? :) sorry not trying too get all into your life and such!

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Thanks and I will! Personal question. How old are you? :) sorry not trying too get all into your life and such!

25.. soon to be 26. Age is just a number... nothing personal about it!:)

Well to some peope that is something very personal. I didn't want too offend you or anything.:) Are you married and stuff?

Yes I am indeed married. I got married in May and it was a perfect wedding. I also have a Chihuahua named Marley... he is my Avatar picture! So far I have the perfect family! LOL

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Yes I am indeed married. I got married in May and it was a perfect wedding. I also have a Chihuahua named Marley... he is my Avatar picture! So far I have the perfect family! LOL

Oh really well I have a pekapoo named cami and I'm married too but I got married when I was 19 and so I guess we both have the perfect little family don't we haha :D

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You are absolutely correct...no need to worry today about what happened yesterday.

Have you taken another HPT yet? Remember, and I can't stress it enough, to take it using first morning urine as the pregnancy hormone (HCG) is more concentrated in early morning urine. As the day progresses, and you eat and drink, the urine gets diluted. This is why many women get false negatives.

No not yet my mom usually has her period a week after me and hers started today so I guess I'm nervous but holding out until she ends hers. Hers usually last 5 days and after that I'm going to go to the doctor. In 5 days if it doesn't show! Is that stupid too do?