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Cant get pregnant

I don't think I can get pregnant because me and my boyfriend haven't used a condom 4 da past year and I still don't pregnant I get my periods every month on time or just 2 or 3 days late and I'm 10 n its abit scary thinking I can't get pregnant can you tell me why

No one here will be able to tell you why. If you think it's a problem, talk to your doctor.

You're ten years old? If so, you do not need to be worrying about getting pregnant, shouldn't be having sex, and shouldn't even have a boyfriend. Please use real words and sentence structure so that we know what you are saying and asking. Netspeak will just confuse people.

I don't understand chat speak. Can you please type in proper words and sentences?

If you are wondering if you are pregnant please pee on your keyboard and I'll have the answer for you momentarily.

We cannot diagnose you over the internet. There are hundreds of different reasons women's periods are late.

Would you be able to tell me where I can find a *qualified* expert from then?

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Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma

You're ten years old??

She's 10 days late I think. I know, chat speak is hard to understand.

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Originally Posted by J3abi_Gurl

would you be able to tell me where i can find a *qualified* expert from then?

I am a qualified expert in obstetrics, however, I cannot diagnose you over the internet. You will have to take a pregnancy test or visit a doctor in person.

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Originally Posted by J_9

She's 10 days late I think. I know, chat speak is hard to understand.

Oh goodness, that scared me. Yes, it is.

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Originally Posted by J3abi_Gurl

would you be able to tell me where i can find a *qualified* expert from then?

A doctor's office? Planned Parenthood? The hospital?

You need a doctor, not the internet.

Sorry I'm 10 years old and that's disgusting what you just said about peeing on the keyboard and my periods don't come late they come on time I just don't get pregnant

Troll troll troll troll

Troll alert.

You are 10 years old and having sex and wondering if you can have a baby? I should say I hope you can't. If you do, either you or the baby will have serious complications and either one of you could possibly die during labor and delivery.

Please talk to your parents about the seriousness of babies having babies.

Sorry my nine is not working it keeps coming up as zero I'm nineteen years old not 10 n I'm not 10 days late

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you are 10 years old and having sex and wondering if you can have a baby? I should say I hope you can't. If you do, either you or the baby will have serious complications and either one of you could possibly die during labor and delivery.

Please talk to your parents about the seriousness of babies having babies.

Better yet - speak to someone qualified like a school counselor because if this thought is even in the head of a 10 year old... and that 10 year old is having sex... then the parents are negligent and should not be having children themselves.

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sorry my nine is not working it keeps coming up as zero im nineteen years old not 10 n im not 10 days late

Ok - well... that's better. :)

Still - you need to speak to a real doctor about the issue if you are not getting pregnant. There might be medical issues, none of which can be diagnosed over the internet.

It may also be your boyfriend.

She is nineteen, answered on another thread.

At 19, you are still too young to be concerned about not being pregnant for not being careful. You can speak with a doctor about your concerns, but I would actually be more inclined to think that you are damn lucky, not infertile.

There is also the question of your boyfriend's fertility, it takes two people to conceive a child.

OK thank you

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Originally Posted by J3abi_Gurl

sorry im 10 years old and thats disgusting what you just said about peeing on the keyboard and my periods dont come late they come on time i just dont get pregnant

It was a JOKE!

Being late for a period is caused by many reasons.

Stress
Weight gain or loss
Illness... etc.

How long have you been actually trying to get pregnant? Have you discussed this with your gynecologist?

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She is nineteen, answered on another thread.

At 19, you are still too young to be concerned about not being pregnant for not being careful. You can speak with a doctor about your concerns, but I would actually be more inclined to think that you are damn lucky, not infertile.

There is also the question of your boyfriend's fertility, it takes two people to conceive a child.

I don't like talking in person to anyone about this that's the only reason why I came here

Well if you were/get pregnant you will have to speak to a doctor then...

So maybe it is time to address the fear.

Otherwise, wait until you grow up a bit, nineteen is still young for parenting.

What's a gynecologist?
About a year

Not really I would change my doctor and then speak to them

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whats a gynecologist?
about a year

A doctor that specialized in girl parts. OB/GYN. Baby and girl doctor.

If you are having sex you need to see a gynecologist once a year for a female physical.

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A doctor that specialized in girl parts. OB/GYN. Baby and girl doctor.

In that case no I haven't

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If you are having sex you need to see a gynecologist once a year for a female physical.

Oh my god I didn't know that:eek:

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in that case no i havent

Please make an appointment. You see, we don't know your medical history, we cannot examine you, and we cannot do lab work. Therefore, we cannot give you an accurate diagnosis.

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Please make an appointment. You see, we don't know your medical history, we cannot examine you, and we cannot do lab work. Therefore, we cannot give you an accurate diagnosis.

Do you have to go to a hospital to see a gynologist

No, dear, you do not have to go to the hospital. They are doctors that have offices, they just specialize in girly parts.

No, most OB/GYN's have there own practices, check your local advertisements/area.

Are you kidding me? This is either a joke or you are WAY to naïve to be wanting to have a child. Yes, you need to be seen for a physical once a year. And at 19, you should be on birth control. You should not be having unprotected sex. You need to be reading up on your body, because you obviously don't know it.

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No, dear, you do not have to go to the hospital. They are doctors that have offices, they just specialize in girly parts.

But I don't want to go to my doctor

You don't have to go to your doctor, go to another doctor. A gynecologist.

If you get pregnant you will be at the doctor a couple of times a month. If you are not pregnant you need to see the doctor for your lady parts at least once a year.

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Are you kidding me? This is either a joke or you are WAY to naive to be wanting to have a child. Yes, you need to be seen for a physical once a year. And at 19, you should be on birth control. You should not be having unprotected sex. You need to be reading up on your body, because you obviously don't know it.

I'm not saying that I want a child I just want to know why I'm not getting pregnant I just want to know what's wrong with me is that such a bad thing I can't go to my doctor I can't talk to my parents there's no one I can talk to I only came on here beacause I wanted abit of advice that's all

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You don't have to go to your doctor, go to another doctor. A gynecologist.

How am I suppose to find a gynecologist I'm really sorry if I'm annoying you

Having unprotected sex = "I want a child!!"

It's one and the same, if you are being careless with your body there are consequences.

Look in your phone book, ask your doctor to make a referrel, look in the physicians covered by your medical insurance.

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Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Look in your phone book, ask your doctor to make a referrel, look in the physicians covered by your medical insurance.

If I don't want to speak to my doctor then how can I ask him to make a referrel

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Originally Posted by J3abi_Gurl

if i dont want to speak to my doctor then how can i ask him to make a referrel

Why don't you want to speak to your doctor? You can't talk to your boyfriend about this? If not, you should be having sex with him. YOU HAVE TO SEE A DOCTOR.