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  • Apr 16, 2009, 03:38 PM
    Princesa05
    I had an abortion I had sex I'm having my period can I still be pregnant
    Like 1 month and a half I had an abortion after the month I had unprotected sex I'm having my period can I still be pregnant? Please answer I need an answee thank you
  • Apr 16, 2009, 03:41 PM
    Alty

    You've already been pregnant and had an abortion and you're still having unprotected sex?

    You do realize that abortion isn't a form of birth control, right?

    As for whether you're pregnant, doubtful, seeing as you're having your period, but anything is possible.

    The fact is, if you have sex, especially unprotected sex, pregnancy is a huge possibility.

    See your doctor, get on the pill and use condoms. This will reduce the chance of pregnancy. Reduce, not eliminate!
  • Apr 16, 2009, 03:41 PM
    J_9
    Why in the world would you have an abortion and then have unprotected sex if you aren't ready to be a parent?

    If you are having your period most likely you are not pregnant. You will now have to wait and see what happens next month.

    Abortion is NOT birth control. At least use a condom.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 03:41 PM
    Mini Kitchen

    Contact your medical provider ASAP.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 03:42 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Mini Kitchen View Post
    contact your medical provider ASAP.

    Why?
  • Apr 16, 2009, 03:43 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Mini Kitchen View Post
    contact your medical provider ASAP.

    I wonder why too?
  • Apr 16, 2009, 03:56 PM
    Princesa05
    But I been feeling lyk I'm pregnant and after da abortion I bleed for 2 weeks and know rite know sometimes it stops so do you tinl I'm pregnant?
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:00 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princesa05 View Post
    But i been feelin lyk im pregnant and after da abortion i bleed for 2 weeks and know rite know sometimes it stops so do u tinl im pregnant??

    We can't tell you for sure, but it is highly unlikely that you are if you are having your period.

    Like J9 said, wait until next month, then, if you miss your period, take an hpt with first morning urnie.

    Also, please don't use text speak, use full words and the best english you are capable of. Some of us are over 20 and have a hard time understanding text talk. Thank you.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:06 PM
    XM8

    Hello princeso05,

    First of all, could you please use proper english words, plus organised sentences and paragraphes when typing? Moreover, please refrain from using "chat lingo - It prevents me and other members on the forum from fully understand what you're talking about.

    Now coming back to your problem - I would doubt that you're pregnant, because you are still having your period, indicating that your embryos may have not been seeded yet.

    Remember this is just a possibility, not a guarantee.

    As Altenweg and J_9 mentioned above, I'd like to emphasize on the fact that abortion is not a substitute for preventing pregnancy, it is a solution for a really crappy situation. Remember that.

    Not only are you going to have to kill yet another fetus, but you are really risking the chance of catching a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

    Please use condoms and get on the pill before you go around having sex like that, it's completely irresponsable and dangerous.

    -Xm8
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:06 PM
    Princesa05
    Thank you
    Thank you is it normal that you pee a lot? And that your stomach hurts but not where is suppose to hurt? This mornin I took midol that usually helps me a lot wit my cramps but this time it didn't help me for nothing
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:09 PM
    J_9
    Menstruation symptoms and pregnancy symptoms can sometimes mimic each other. Again, you are just going to have to wait until next month to find out if you are pregnant or not.

    In the meantime, please make an appointment with a doctor so that you can get on birth control.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:15 PM
    Princesa05
    I had sex after 4 weeks
    U still think that next month I can be? Is that me and my boyfriend startef having sex witout condom like 1 week ago so that's why I have my doubts please help me
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:16 PM
    Curlyben
    >Questions Merged<
    Please stick to ONE thread for this issue
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:19 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princesa05 View Post
    U still think that next month i can be?? Is that me and my boyfriend startef having sex witout condom like 1 week ago so thats why i have my doubts please help me

    There is nothing we can do to help you. You have to stop having unprotected sex. You have to wait until next month to see if you get your period.

    You put yourself in this position, you have to wait it out. We are not psychics, and although I am licensed to give pregnancy tests, etc. There is nothing I can do for you over the internet.

    Also, as Curlyben mentioned, please do not start a new thread just scroll down below this answer to respond.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:26 PM
    Princesa05

    Ok thank you for your help and I guess I have to wait for next month
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:42 PM
    Princesa05

    Where are you guys located?
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:43 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princesa05 View Post
    Where are you guys located??

    Located?

    It's the internet, worldwide web. No location.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 04:54 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princesa05 View Post
    Where are you guys located??

    Planet Earth, more specifically US of A
  • Apr 16, 2009, 05:19 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Planet Earth, more specifically US of A

    Personally, I'm on Mars! ;)
  • Apr 16, 2009, 05:23 PM
    Ana52408

    You know that happened to my mom's best friend in her early teens and when she went to the doctor is because they didn't clear out the baby right and that's why she was still bleeding.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:07 PM
    Princesa05

    I just took a shower and I started bleeding is that notmal?
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:08 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princesa05 View Post
    I just took a shower and i started bleeding is that notmal?

    Yes.

    You said that you're having your period, so blood is normal.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:12 PM
    Princesa05

    But it started coming out if I was peeing! And den my nipples started to itch
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:18 PM
    Princesa05

    But is she still pregnant?
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:19 PM
    jandtspencer
    Please, please, please stop having unprotected sex lady! Why would you do that right after having an abortion? Didn't you feel bad in the slightest about what you did to an innocent baby or do you not care and further more not care if you do it to another innocent baby? If you are that worried schedule yourself an appointment with a gynocologist and get checked out and whilke you're there get some info on safe sex or ABSTINENCE!
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:22 PM
    Princesa05

    Why are you talking to me so mean? I haven't done nothing to you
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:23 PM
    Princesa05
    If I'm pregnant I'm going to keep my baby and I regret it bad and know I want one bad that's why I want you guys to help me
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:35 PM
    Princesa05

    Can you giys help me I regret bad what I did and right now I really want to know if I COULD POSSIBLY BE PREGNANT
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:46 PM
    artlady

    If you are bleeding to the point where it is flowing from you like urine ,you need to visit an emergency room. It is not normal to bleed like that from a regular menstrual cycle.
    Did you have an abortion from a medical doctor at a clinic?
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:49 PM
    Princesa05
    Yes I did but I'm scared I don't know if I'm pregnant or da something its wrong with me what do you think it is?
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:51 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princesa05 View Post
    Can you giys help me i regret bad what i did and right now i really want to know if I COULD POSSIBLY BE PREGNANT

    If you had an abortion,you are not pregnant.

    You are far too inexperienced to be thinking about having a baby if you are going on the internet asking people to diagnose you as if we were visiting nurses.

    Grow up and get some experience in life and then worry about making babies.I can see from your post that you are young and not very well educated yet!

    People get a little upset when they see young girls such as yourself making silly mistakes that can be prevented with education and intelligence.
    We are not trying to be mean.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:53 PM
    shannameiling
    Yes, some women can be pregnant and still have a bleed. We don't know why it happens or where the blood comes from but it is possible to have a bleed. Try taking a home pregnancy test or go to a doctor.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:54 PM
    artlady

    I suggest you speak to a parent ,you may possibly need to visit an ER if you are bleeding like urine coming out of you.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:57 PM
    Princesa05

    Ok thank you its normal
    What I'm feeling I don't feel normal
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:58 PM
    Princesa05
    I mean I don't feel normal
  • Apr 16, 2009, 06:59 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    First sorry, you may not like some of the answers you get, but if you had a abortion then started having unprotected sex within 30 days, then there has to be a problem with YOU for some reason you feel abortion is a form of birth control or do not understand proper protection to take not to get pregnant.

    The suggestion that you learn, grow up is actually a sound example of good advice to someone who appears to be doing things poorly
  • Apr 16, 2009, 07:00 PM
    JoeCanada76

    Then see a doctor..
  • Apr 16, 2009, 07:11 PM
    Princesa05
    Because I regret what I did and now I want to have a baby
  • Apr 16, 2009, 07:17 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princesa05 View Post
    Can you giys help me i regret bad what i did and right now i really want to know if I COULD POSSIBLY BE PREGNANT

    Good God girl! We can't tell you!

    Do you want us to guess? Okay then, there's a chance that you're pregnant, and there's a chance that you're not. There, does that help?

    We've given you advice, told you what to do, we don't have anything else to offer you.

    Regret all you want, it's too late now. As for keeping the next baby that comes along, I suggest you learn how to spell first, then learn about menstruation and what causes pregnancy, because it's painfully obvious that you have no clue.

    This question was answered on page one. No matter how many people come here to tell you the same thing, it doesn't change the fact that we have no idea whether you're pregnant and you telling us any new symptoms you're having won't change that fact!

    Wait until next month, if you miss your period then take an hpt using first morning urine. Write this down, it's the last time I'm saying it.

    Yes, I'm mad. There are other people here who need our help, you've already gotten the help you need, so move on.

    Good luck.
  • Apr 16, 2009, 07:18 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princesa05 View Post
    Because i regret what i did and now i want to have a baby

    How old are you?

    You cannot replace an aborted baby with another baby. That's immature thinking. I am guessing you are in your teens.

    Do you have a clue as to all of the ramifications of pregnancy and motherhood? Do you know how much it costs to raise a child? How do you plan on paying for all of this?

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