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  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:21 AM
    lele445454
    Am I pregnant?
    Hi, I had my lmp July 12th it lasted until tha 17 I had intercourse using tha pulling out method tha 23rd and 24th and tha 30th 2nd of aug. 4th 5th and 6th my 1st fertile day was tha 23rd through tha 29 or 28th can I b pregnant now?:confused:
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:23 AM
    lele445454
    Can I get pregnant
    My period is suppose 2 come on tha 8th I had intercourse yesterday going on 2 today using tha pulling out method can I get pregnant 2 days be4 my period is due?:confused:
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:24 AM
    LearningAsIGo
    The "Pull Out Method" is not reliable at all. Its very possible that you could be pregnant. Wait and see if you have a missed period, then take a home test.

    In the mean time, use actual protection to avoid pregnancy and STD's.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:26 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Yes you can be pregnant, whether you used protection or not. No form of birth control is 100% effective. If I am calculating correctly you shouldn't be due for your next period until around August 14th. -correction, august 9th. i apologize- I am sorry to say this, but you are going to have to wait for that next period. If it doesn't come, then you will know you can start testing for pregnancy. Also, if it doesn't come, wait about 14 days after the missed period and take an HPT using your first morning urine. Or you can go to the doctor and get a blood test.

    From here it is just a waiting game because you won't really know until you miss a period :)

    **EDIT** - Learning is right, the pull out method is not effective. While he may have pulled out during ejaculation, he releases pre-ejaculate throughout intercourse that you or he cannot feel, and it does contain sperm. It is a low count of sperm, but enough to get you pregnant. I always tell people, it only takes one sperm to fertilize an egg.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:26 AM
    LearningAsIGo
    Its possible. Not as likely as the day you actually ovulated, but its possible.

    The "Pull Out Method" is not really a method at all. It fails most of the time, so use something else like a condom or BCP.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:28 AM
    lele445454
    But he didn't nut n me he pulled out n started jerkin then he came could I still b pregnant?
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:28 AM
    LearningAsIGo
    YES You could still be pregnant.

    You can not see sperm, it could be on him or his hands and easily get inside you.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:29 AM
    lele445454
    OK
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:30 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    but he didnt nut n me he pulled out n started jerkin then he came could i still b pregnant?

    It doesn't matter if he didn't "nut" in you. He releases "pre-nut" while he is having sex with you. I would suggest getting on some form of birth control or use condoms if you don't want to become a mother.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:31 AM
    lele445454
    Pre
    Me and my partner had sex using tha pulling out method so he pulls out and we lay there I turned around and his penis wit tha nut on it swipes across my vagina yesterday wasn't my fertile day can I still get pregnant?
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:35 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Refer back to here please : https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...nt-116998.html

    I don't like repeating myself.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:35 AM
    ebaines
    There's a term for people who have sex without benefit of a condom or other birth control - they're called "parents." Please investigate a more reliable method than the one you're using!
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:38 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LearningAsIGo
    Its possible. Not as likely as the day you actually ovulated, but its possible.

    The "Pull Out Method" is not really a method at all. It fails most of the time, so use something else like a condom or BCP.

    I have a feeling this person is just playing us. I don't like it when this happens.

    To the OP, you got answers here, so refer back to here : https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...nt-116998.html

    There is no reason to keep opening threads asking the same question when you have already gotten answers.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:40 AM
    lele445454
    Is my friend pregnant
    Hi, I'm asking this question for my friend sitting right here she had intercourse using the pulling out method when he pulled out she gave him oral but didn't swollow tha she spitted it and her hand and rubbed her vagina (I don't know why she did that but she did stupid huh) she did that 3days be4 her period is due and she wasn't fertile around tha time could she be pergo
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:41 AM
    LearningAsIGo
    I hope you're having a good laugh at this.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:43 AM
    lele445454
    It wasn't a joke I'm dead serious
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:43 AM
    jrb252000
    You can be fertile at anytime of the month. Usually it is two weeks before your period. Anytime there is penetration there is a chance of being pregnant. Precum contains sperm (though very little). If her period is two weeks late I would suggest a home pregnancy test with her first morning urine.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:44 AM
    LearningAsIGo
    YES to all your questions. She could be and you could be. Please look into condoms and educating yourself about these things before you both have sex again.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:44 AM
    nauticalstar420
    The same applies for your "Friend" as it does for you. Pull out method is not good. Period. No matter who uses it. Aside from the fact there is no protection against pregnancy, there is also no protection against STD's.

    You need to at least use condoms. It doesn't take that much time for the man to slip one on.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:44 AM
    lele445454
    Its not late 4 this month its suppose 2 come in 3days but since she did that stupid thing could there have been alive sprem n her saliva
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:45 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    its not late 4 this month its suppose 2 come in 3days but since she did that stupid thing could there have been alive sprem n her saliva

    You can't get pregnant from "swallowing", and by now the sperm is probably dead anyway.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:46 AM
    jrb252000
    Even if there was it would not be able to make the journey to fertilize an egg. Hence the word penetration.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:48 AM
    lele445454
    She says she didn't swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:50 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    she says she didnt swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina

    You can't get pregnant that way. Ejaculate and pre-ejaculate have to be shot up close to the cervix, which is why only penetration can get you pregnant.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:50 AM
    jrb252000
    You can not get pregnant that way... however since he penetrated her he could have released precum which the male doesn't feel and that could have gotten her pregnant.
    Based on the questions you are asking you all need to talk to a trusted adult about sex and discontinue having it.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:52 AM
    lele445454
    Pre cun
    Hi my sister has bv and had intercourse can tha partner get it could she get pregnant still if they had sex unprotected
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:53 AM
    jrb252000
    Would you stop asking these annoying questions... anytime you have unprotected sex you run the risk of pregnancy and getting an STD
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:54 AM
    lele445454
    Can men bust and not no it during a pulling out method? Does the girl feel it
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:56 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    can men bust and not no it during a pulling out method? does the girl feel it

    That is the thing about the pull out method. The male has to have a lot of self control, and you are putting all of your trust into him. There are cases when the male has had an "accident" and accidentally ejaculated inside of the female. He didn't have any control over it. That is why you need to at least use condoms.

    If you are referring to pre-ejaculate, yes he does this throughout sex and you or he cannot feel it. It is meant to be a form of lubrication but it does contain a small amount of sperm.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:58 AM
    LearningAsIGo
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    she says she didnt swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina

    Swallowing it has nothing to do with getting pregnant. Fingers can be enough to get it "up there" Its just too risky, so she shouldn't be engaging in this type of activity without real protection.

    Its possible, but not very probable.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:01 AM
    lele445454
    I was using tha pulling out method on my fertile 1st day which was 23rd we having sex and he pulls out but there is 2 drops of semen on his leg but he said he busted could it have been inside of me?
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:03 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    i was using tha pullin out method on my fertile 1st day which was 23rd we having sex and he pulls out but there is 2 drops of semen on his leg but he said he busted could it have been inside of me?

    If you don't know the answers to any of these questions you have no business having sex.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:05 AM
    lele445454
    Can you answer tha question please I know but I'm not 2 sure
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:06 AM
    J_9
    You are asking for a friend or for yourself. Come out with the truth. We are not here to play games.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:07 AM
    nauticalstar420
    He could have ejaculated anywhere. That is why you need to stop putting so much trust into men by not using protection. Depending on how young you are, if you get pregnant at a young age a young man might not want to stick around and help you, so you'll be alone and raising a baby. Do you want that?
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:07 AM
    jrb252000
    You need to talk to a nurse or other trusted adult about sex... if you can't understand the basic concept of all the answers you got from all the threads you posted stop having sex. I would go to the nearest planned parenthood and request pregnancy test, and test for every STD.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:08 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jrb252000
    You need to talk to a nurse or other trusted adult about sex...if you can't understand the basic concept of all the answers you got from all the threads you posted stop having sex. I would go to the nearest planned parenthood and request pregnancy test, and test for every STD.

    And then request birth control if you cannot stop having sex.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:11 AM
    lele445454
    No I wouldn't want that but we been having sex like this 4 2yrs nothing happens I'm 20 yrs old my birthday is today
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:13 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    no i wouldnt want that but we been havin sex like this 4 2yrs nothin happens im 20 yrs old my bday is 2day

    Well maybe for your birthday you should get yourself some birth control. It will help you in the long run, trust me. There are guys that don't want to stick around and help raise a baby. They feel they have better things to do. I know that sounds harsh, but it is the truth.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:13 AM
    jrb252000
    OMG can someone kick her off... you are that old and you haven't the first clue about sex... I hope you enjoyed your little game here today... there are some people who really need help and advice please go find something else to do

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