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Pregnant or not!

Well I have been having some very weird things that are not normal for me!:eek: my breast are sore and one looks and feels bigger then the other one! I haven't been able to sleep for about month and I had a small bleeding for about two days then it went away then I started bleeding again me and my boyfriend have been trying to have a baby for some time know I have tried to get an appointment with my doctor about this and he said I have to be at least 2 weeks late on my period can anybody give me some advice
(my last period was on march 12):)

Thank you for any advice given:p

I would say for you to hang in there for a few more days. If you don't come on soon make that appointment or do a pregnancy test. Good luck.

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If you need medical assistance you will first need a diagnosis of pregnancy... so find an ob/gyn (which you should already have as you should be getting yearly exams). You will either need to have taken a HPT which came out positive, or tell them you are X number of weeks late and the HPT is negative. Either way, the dr will most likely want to see you. Then get a note on a prescription pad from the dr if you are pregnant, stating your expected due date. You will need to provide this as evidence of pregnancy to be eligible for medical assistance. Let your dr know you are applying, and they will hold all charges for the first few visits, as they will expect that medical assistance will cover them. Medical assistance will be back dated to your first doctor's appt, so keep the date handy. (have the dr write it on the paper that states your due date.) You will be covered for 6 weeks post-partum, the baby will be covered for as long as you earn less than the maximum allowed in your state. The most important thing you can do is get medical care for yourself.

Thanks for your advice vlee I appreciate it you are 1 of several people that have not been judging but giving advice thanks once again to everybody who has not judged be for being so concerned about my pregnancy

Have sex two weeks after your period and lie on your back while having sex so the sperm can get through the cervix. Also after he has ejaculated... while lying on your back have your hips elavated... because if you get up quickly the sperm will come out,stay elavated for 10 min.
That's the best baby making position. Well good luck. :)

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

Wow, yes you do have lots of questions. Unfortunatly not all of them can be answered.

I will do my best to answer most of them for you.

- Maybe it is best you go to the clinic yourself just to find out, that is my personal opinion.

- The more you have sex, does not guarentee a better chanch of getting pregnant. The reason being is that most women only are fertile and can only get pregnant 3 days in a month.

- If you do end up pregnant and he does not want it but you do. It is your choice whether you want to keep the baby or not. Not his.

- Never ever, never ever douche. Whether you are pregnant or not.

- Play fighting, I would say no. Many doctors say that what ever activities you have done before pregnancy you can continue while your pregnant. I on the other hand think very differently. I believe that you need to be careful of the activities that you do.

- When is your period due? If it is past due for five to seven days then take another hpt test, but there have been cases of negatives really being positives with some women. This would be the time that you need to go to the clinic and get a blood test.

- Just to be on the safe side and just to make sure that your lifestyle is healthy. No smoking, No drinking, cut out any caffiene products. Also you should start prenatels just in case you are pregnant or maybe you just want to get the results first?

- What do you mean is it okay for him to scar you? What exactly does that mean?

- Pregnancy and weight gain go together. If this boyfriend can not handle you gaining weight and he decides to leave you. Quite honestly your better off without him, but do not concern yourself with that, and if you have to ask that question there must be problems already?

- I do not know about the family or how they will react. Each family is different. No matter who accepts or who does not, really does not count for much because it is you that needs to make the decision about the baby.

- I think it is also best to get a complete physical from a doctor. They can check all your blood work and other symtoms just to make sure it is nothing else going on.

Joe

Just readmitting the answer I gave a few weeks ago.

Thanks for all your help jesushelper76 you have been a lot of help and just to up date well I took another HPT and it came out negative so I am going to the doctor on Wednesday and I will be having a blood test done just to make sure I have not gotten a period I have had spottings but that is about it I will keep everybody who would like to know informed thank you for everything