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  • Jan 14, 2011, 09:04 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    I can close the thread because I am one of the Super moderators on the site. If I feel that the poster is not being honest and up front, or if they are playing games, ( not really wanting help) or for violation of rules, we may close a thread.

    A normal house does not have ten 19 year olds, or was it a 10 year old and a 19 year old, but then you have you and your sis and mom,

    So who are the other people, how are you related, Do you rent.
  • Jan 14, 2011, 09:07 PM
    J_9

    Why are there 10 19 year olds? How are they related to you?

    This isn't a home like a normal home.

    You need to come clean and give us all the info.

    This sounds more like a group home.

    SuperModerators like Chuck and myself can close threads.

    Please stop using the comments feature to respond. Scroll down to the Answer box.
  • Jan 14, 2011, 09:15 PM
    Freakedoutt
    Comment on J_9's post
    If I use the answer boxes you guys don't answer bk how do you quote it?
  • Jan 14, 2011, 09:18 PM
    Freakedoutt
    Comment on Fr_Chuck's post
    OK... umm I'm not sure if we rent. But it's a 3 story house and me and my sis live up stairs and the 19 yr olds live downstairs and I think my mum live rite up top. Stays not live. And they are my brothers mates we have nowen them for ages
  • Jan 14, 2011, 09:23 PM
    Freakedoutt
    Because they live there they and they are my brothers mates. We have knowen them for like ages.

    Wt info would u like to know?
  • Jan 14, 2011, 11:11 PM
    Alty

    Try writing in complete words. If you're old enough to be pregnant you can stop using chat speak. It makes it really hard to understand your posts.

    First, is the father of your baby one of these 19 year olds? Does he know you're pregnant? Was the sex consensual? Even if it was at your age and his, depending on where you live, he's guilty of statutory rape.

    What are you going to do about the baby? Have you decided whether you're going to keep it, have an abortion, give it up for adoption? You need to start thinking about these things, because only two of those options can be done later, one needs to be done pretty soon. You can't wait forever.

    Is your mom helping you at all? Is she going to take you to a counselor to discuss what you can do? Is she going to take you to a doctor? You may be pregnant, but she's still your mother and she's responsible for your care.
  • Jan 14, 2011, 11:28 PM
    J_9

    The OP has been asked not to use the comments feature and not to type in text/chat speak.

    Should this continue, this thread WILL be closed.

    All future correspondence by the OP must be responded in the Answer box and complete words and sentences must be used as required by the TOS of the site.
  • Jan 14, 2011, 11:42 PM
    Freakedoutt
    @Altenweg
    Yes and he nos but I'm to scared to talk to him about it.
    And I'm going to fp on Monday about it
  • Jan 14, 2011, 11:42 PM
    Freakedoutt
    J_9

    OK sorry.
  • Jan 14, 2011, 11:43 PM
    J_9

    FP? Again... complete words and sentences. This is not a chat room.
  • Jan 14, 2011, 11:49 PM
    Freakedoutt
    J_9

    Sorry. That's just what we all could it here.
    Family planning
  • Jan 14, 2011, 11:53 PM
    J_9

    It may be what you call it there, but this is a world wide website. We don't all know the terms where you live.

    Also, most of us are adults with children your age and older. We don't all understand chat/text speak.

    Again, this is not a chat room where you have to type quickly to get your thought in. It is a message board where you can take your time to type correctly to get the entire message out.
  • Jan 15, 2011, 12:16 AM
    J_9

    So, let me guess, DeeScaredd is your friend who is in the same position as you except you are 10 weeks pregnant and she is 5 weeks. You both live in the same household?

    Correct? Look, don't try to pull the wool over our eyes. We are smarter than that.

    For those that are curious...

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-...lp-544196.html
  • Jan 15, 2011, 12:34 AM
    Alty

    We will be as honest with you as you are with us. We don't like people wasting our time, breaking the rules, lying to us. We volunteer here because we care, so either be honest or go find someplace else to play.

    I was more than willing to be here for you during all of this. I was more than willing to help any way that I could. Now I'm done with it.

    If you want to play games, play them with your baby once it's born. You will not play them with me, because I will not allow you to.

    You better start acting like an adult, even though you aren't one. You have 30 weeks before you're a mom. No more being a child and acting childish. This isn't going to go away, it's time to take responsibility for your actions, smarten up and figure out what you're going to do about this. It's not only your life on the line, the babies life hangs in the balance as well, and it doesn't have a choice. You do!

    If you are willing to be honest, willing to work with us, willing to follow the rules of this site and stop beating around the bush, then I'll be here to do what I can. But, if you don't stop your childish ways I'm done as I'm sure the rest of us are as well.

    So what's it to be?
  • Jan 15, 2011, 02:08 AM
    Freakedoutt
    @J_9

    I don't know who that is?
    Why would you think that it would be me?

    That is actually really offenive I have no clue about that girl. She could be just as scared as I am and wanting help. Why would you actually accuse someone like that?
  • Jan 15, 2011, 12:36 PM
    Alty

    Freakedoutt, The person that posted under that other name is using the same computer you are. Super mods can see IP addresses. Are you going to hold on to that lie knowing you've been busted?

    Obviously you aren't going to stop lying. That's a shame. We did give you every chance to be honest, and to help us help you. You don't seem capable of doing that, so I'm going to unsubscribe from this thread.

    I won't waste my time on people that don't really want help, who just want to play games with us. I doubt anyone else will either.
  • Jan 15, 2011, 12:44 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    I thought something was fishy when she was so vague about where she lived, and where her mom was. There is not a normal house where 10 teenagers live downstairs, and mom does not live upstairs, but stays there?

    As I threatened, I am closing this, since my guess was right

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