Ask Me Help Desk - Pregnant ?

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Originally Posted by urlittlerachie

but i rather have a baby then a std.

What? This is so ridiculous!!

95% of STDs can be cured with a single shot of an antibiotic and you are choosing to raise a baby from a rape and you don't even know who the heck the daddy is.

Boy, you have a long road ahead of you girl!!

Take a test, you won't know until you do. Yes, pre- can definitely get your pregnant, as it contains sperm, and guys don't even know when they release it. This is why so many babies are conceived with the pull out method. You should also reconsider your relationship with your boyfriend, if he allowed all this to happen,didn't try to stop it, & doesn't even seem upset about it!

I apologize, I didn't realize that the guy was your ex-boyfriend, and you are with someone else now. (thanks joe) I guess I missed that part.

Hi! I hope you get back on here and let us know how you are doing, There are people on here who are concerned about you. Before you put everything else on your plate and go to the doctor. Get a piece of paper out and try to write down everything you remember about that night. Write dates and times if you can remember them. Who were the people at the party? Write down everything that your X told you. And anything you can remember on your own even if it is bits and pieces. After you are done with that, if you need to go to your local health department, and ask someone that you really trust, a sister.. a parent.. another family member, just someone that you can trust. If no one can go with you, go anyway and take the piece of paper that you wrote everything on and keep it handy when you are asked specific questions on why you are at the doctor. You should go in and tell them that you have had unprotected sex and feel that you are pregnant. Your safety and well being at this point takes priority over anything else. If indeed you are pregnant ask the health department to give you information concerning your next step on what to do, they have counselors, and other types of doctors and nurses to help you with these things.
As far as being concerned about what happened that night, you should leave that up to the proper authorities. And understand that even if nothing is done you should contact the police and tell them what you know about that night. If this is not something you are willing to do then at least go check for yourself about STDs, pregnancy etc. Good luck to you and please keep us informed about your status.