What developing country is this ? There is reason why you can't mention it.

Phoenix, Arizona. Just wondering.. Hospital saved after DNC was done? Humm... Unheard off..
Anyway.. It is nice DEVELOPING Country...

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What developing country is this ? There is reason why you can't mention it.

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Phoenix, Arizona. Just wondering.. Hospital saved after DNC was done? Humm... Unheard off..
Anyway.. It is nice DEVELOPING Country...

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Phoenix, Arizona is not a country, much less a developing country. It is a state in the United States.

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Just wondering.. Hospital saved after DNC was done?.

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The hospital saved what after the DNC was done?

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What developing country is this ? There is reason why you can't mention it.

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Yes, I am trying to protect my friends privacy, because it is a small country. I will try to send you a private message.

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What developing country is this ? There is reason why you can't mention it.

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I don't see a way in which I can't send you a private message, but this country isn't in the US. They don't have malaria and dengue there right? And it is a developing country, in the tropics and that is all that I am willing to say out in the open to protect my friends privacy.

If there is a way in which I can reach you privately, please let me know.

What is a DNC?

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Yes, I am trying to protect my friends privacy, because it is a small country. I will try to send you a private message.

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And well you should but we don't know who she is, so she is not in jeopardy.

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What is a DNC?

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It is a cleaning out of the uterus, or curetage, after a miscarriage or abortion.

Not DNC but D&C, dilation and curettage.

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And well you should but we don't know who she is, so she is not in jeopardy.



It is a cleaning out of the uterus, or curetage, after a miscarriage or abortion.

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Yes, she had a curetage immediately afterwards. Isn't there a way in which I can send you a private message?

I am afraid that if I post the name of the country and someone from this country reads this, they will know exactly who I am talking about.

I find it highly unlikely your friend is in an absolutely unique situation... even in her country. Worst case it would only appear to be a similar situation as someone else. Absolutely impossible to positively identify her... PARTICULARLY in a developing third world country.

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I find it highly unlikely your friend is in an absolutely unique situation... even in her country. Worst case it would only appear to be a similar situation as someone else. Absolutely impossible to positively identify her... PARTICULARLY in a developing third world country.

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My friend is a highly educated professional, this country does has acces to the internet and a lot of people, that also have internet acces know her. In a small community like that, people are quickly on television and in newspapers.

There is only one IVF lab and only rich people can afford IVF there, the common man can't afford it. So yes, she is probably the only miscarriage from a pregnancy that started in IVF.

Her location is not important. It appears she got the proper treatment. There is nothing more that can be said or done at this point.

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Her location is not important. It appears she got the proper treatment. There is nothing more that can be said or done at this point.

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Thank you. That is all that I wanted to know.

I can't imagine dressing a 15 week fetus. Or having an open casket.

But that's beside the issue of what your friend's future might be. I find it frustrating that you ask about suing doctors in the same breath as saying that it's cheaper in her country. If IVF is new or uncommon or both there, then she would either not have it, would save for those plane tickets and higher costs elsewhere, or would stop thinking about suing. She would research success rates with each clinic or hospital or individual doctor too, no matter where she goes. She would weigh all the data and risks (obviously things can go wrong no matter how much you spend).

MANY THANKS TO J_9 for being here, giving valuable information, and soothing words as well.

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I can't imagine dressing a 15 week fetus. Or having an open casket.

But that's beside the issue of what your friend's future might be. I find it frustrating that you ask about suing doctors in the same breath as saying that it's cheaper in her country. If IVF is new or uncommon or both there, then she would either not have it, would save for those plane tickets and higher costs elsewhere, or would stop thinking about suing. She would research success rates with each clinic or hospital or individual doctor too, no matter where she goes. She would weigh all the data and risks (obviously things can go wrong no matter how much you spend).

MANY THANKS TO J_9 for being here, giving valuable information, and soothing words as well.

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I never talked about suing myself. Someone else stated that if my friend has doubts, she should hire a malpractise lawyer and I only stated that that is impossible in that developing country. She never thought about suing either, my friend and I never discussed suing anybody, all we talked about if it would be worth it to go elsewhere. She did research succes rates etc. The best were in Dusseldorf, Germany, but there they only take patients in a durable relationship and since she is single, that is not an option for her. That is where they provide the assisted hatching.