Just to bring it all home. I have two kids. My first we tried for 7 months to get pregnant, the second we tried for 10 months. My third pregnancy, and yes, there was a third, was one night of reckless abandon. Sadly I lost that one to miscarriage at 3 months.
We didn't try again because of my fear of going through another miscarriage. I almost died, it was bad, long story. Hubby had a vasectomy. Now I regret it, even though I'm a bit old to be having another, I'm 43, and I haven't had a period in 2 years. Too many health issues, all contributing to the lack of period. Not going through menopause, which is surprising.
But after I had a D & C to remove the dead fetus inside of me, all the doctors there said it was just bad luck, that I shouldn't be afraid to try again. I was afraid though, and didn't do it.
Don't be afraid. If this doesn't end the way you want it to, don't be afraid to try again. Don't deny yourself something you really want.

