Ask Me Help Desk - Has the sperm already made its way to the egg by the time the gest.sac begans to form

You were given DNA information because there is clearly a question of paternity. You had sex with two men which means either one could be the father.

Oh, you cannot delete this from the website. It is now permanent. Had you read the TOS of the site when you signed up you would have known that.

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Originally Posted by J_9

You were given DNA information because there is clearly a question of paternity. You had sex with two men which means either one could be the father.

Oh, you cannot delete this from the website. It is now permanent. Had you read the TOS of the site when you signed up you would have known that.

Ok but paternity was never my question, somehow everybody is overlooking the question and going str8 to replying to a comment I made.and No what I said was I'm deleting myself from this website.. not this comment cause at this point I don't give a... And I'm done going back and forward on a damn website ! Not my thing, I'm a in person type female... now good day

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Originally Posted by shanny90

Ok but paternity was never my question, somehow everybody is overlooking the question and going str8 to replying to a comment I made.and No what I said was I'm deleting myself from this website.. not this comment cause at this point I don't give a... And I'm done going back and forward on a damn website ! Not my thing, I'm a in person type female... now good day

Your question was answered by the first person who responded.

You cannot delete yourself. Stop posting so your name will slowly float to the bottom of the barrel.

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Originally Posted by shanny90

Ok thank you so much for your reply. Here's why I ask. I am 29weeks pregnant and confused by who. My boyfriend and I live together, on March 25th 2013 I had some spotting for about 3hrs(then nothing). Me and my boyfriend have sex everyday including that day and every day after that ( 25,26,27,28,29,30,31,April 1,2,3,4) late evening on the 4th we got into a huge argument due to messages in his phone so he called his self so-called moving out... So that night, fed up with crying I called my ex (mistake) he came over around 12midnight (basically April 5th) we then had sex around 5am. He left and later that day around 2pm my boyfriend came back home.. too scared to tell him, I kept quiet and said nothing of it. On April 26th I found out I was pregnant the er said they only see a sac so I'm about 4-5weeks. But did I mention on April 4th I had a doctors appointment because I was complaining about not feeling well and my breast hurting badly (scared it was cancer or something) she asked would I like to take a pregnancy test I said sure OK, she took it and said it came back negative. But the er said on the 26th I was about 4-5weeks... So why question is was pregnancy already beginning around March 25th that's where the spotting came from,if so does that mean it was just to early to pick up at my docs appointment?

This is from post #3 in this thread. I've bolded the pertinent parts. This clearly indicates that your reason was asking was concern over who the father is.

The question about sac was answered right off the bat, and again in other responses. That's why subsequent responses dealt with the heart of the issue.

We don't delete threads or accounts here. If you feel you don't want to use this site further, then just stop logging in.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

This is from post #3 in this thread. I've bolded the pertinent parts. This clearly indicates that your reason was asking was concern over who the father is.

The question about sac was answered right off the bat, and again in other responses. That's why subsequent responses dealt with the heart of the issue.

We don't delete threads or accounts here. If you feel you don't want to use this site further, then just stop logging in.

Thank you Scott. I answered the way I did because it was very obvious that the OP was asking about when the sac forms, etc, to determine when she became pregnant. Since there were two partners, why ask this question unless you're trying to determine who the father is? This entire thread is very much about wondering who the father is, which is why I said she'd need a DNA test.

It's obvious that the OP is upset because we did answer the question, and couldn't tell her who the daddy is. We see that all the time here. People don't want to accept that we can't tell them who the father of their child is, that only a DNA test will be able to tell them, no matter how many ultrasounds, etc. the person has.

To the OP, I'm sorry that we couldn't tell you what you really wanted to know. I do hope you get the DNA test once the baby is born, and I really do wish you all the best, even after the way you acted on this thread.

Good luck.