Ask Me Help Desk - I Want To Have A Baby

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

I am saying that the first time she was pregnant she should have told her mother to stick her opinion where it fits. She should have done that. I thought that is what I made loud and clear but then I get fitted and labelled as being judgemental?

Joe

Ok then maybe she's feeling you, realised her mistake, and has now decided she'll stand strong..

It wasn't really that clear because in another breath you suggest family support is necessary.. So I couldn't define where you stood..

I truthfully didn't read all the comments back so I'm not sure you got all the answers you were looking for. Fist of the best way to get pregnant is 14days after you last period. Because your period is so irregular then that’s going to be a little harder. You could always go to the store and buy and ovulations kit I heard they work great! I’m 19 so a year younger then you and I’m due sometime around Aug. People tell me all the time its going to be hard for me and that I won't be able to do it. I do understand its going to be hard but lest just say my life hasn’t been that easy up tell here. Right now I don’t work and before that I was only a waitress. My fiancé is a welder. Which gives him 6,000 dollars a month. Were even planning to buy this beautiful house before the baby come which will take 800 dollars a month to pay on our mortgage and will be worth it in the long run. My friends have been huge helps, from helping me with the crib to all my baby need plus I have 3 younger siblings that loved it and have pitched in so much already. I’m sure once your mom has a grandchild she will change her mind in so many ways. She just worried for you, your parents always want the best for you and she’s thinking that its out there some where else. But if truth be told she don’t know what’s in your hear. If you ever need help or any kind of support I’m here for you. Good luck getting pregnant.

P.S. I should tell you that once you have had an abortion it is hard to become pregnant and the one your have the lower your chances are. So you might have to be trying for a while…but there tons of fun in that. Also if your don’t mind you might want to look at how far along you were when you had this abortion cause your body might not be fully ready to have a baby just yet.

Once Again Your Still Talking About My Question After I Said Thanks But No Thanks To Your "advice" In My Question I Don't Believed I Asked For Any Opinions Or Comments On Abortion I Asked About Techniques To Get Pregnant... I See Your Against Abortion And That's Cool But Im Prochoice... I Have Found Plenty Of Support On This Website And I Know There's Good People Out There With Good Advice (not Including You) So Stay Off My Page And Don't Answer Nothing I Ask... once Again Thanks But No Thanks... have A Nice Life

You should chart your basal body temp to track your ovulation. You can also use ovulation predictor kits. Since your period is abnormal, I would say to have intercourse every other day between periods. That will ensure that you have intercourse during ovulation. You still want to chart your ovulation so you know that you are ovulating. Hope this helps.

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Originally Posted by JacintaBlue2004

Once Again Your Still Talking About My Question After I Said Thanks But No Thanks To Your "advice" In My Question I Dont Believed I Asked For Any Opinions Or Comments On Abortion I Asked About Techniques To Get Pregnant...i See Your Against Abortion And Thats Cool But Im Prochoice...i Have Found Plenty Of Support On This Website And I Know Theres Good People Out There With Good Advice (not Including You) So Stay Off My Page And Dont Answer Nothing I Ask...once Again Thanks But No Thanks...have A Nice Life

It does not matter whether you said no thanks to advice that you did not like, because that is exactly what this board, open board mind you is for. Everybody gives their advice and answers and you decide what is best for you. If you can not handle the advice, even though true not my problem. THIS NOT YOUR PAGE, IT IS A PUBLIC PAGE FOR ALL TO ANSWER. SO DO NOT EVEN START WITH ME.

Joe

Houston, we have a problem!!

Okay, I see where Joe is coming from. If Mom was able to coerce you into an abortion 5 months ago, she may try again. If you are pregnant, and she does try to force you, and you don't want to, the stress of this can be unhealthy to you and the baby.

I am not trying to be judgmental, but am trying to show you the medical side of this. Okay?

Yes, 5 months is a little early to be trying again. Your body needs to recover completely from the abortion before it is physicall ready to carry a baby in a healthy manner.

The stress your mother may cause is another health issue during pregnancy. Stress does indeed affect the growing fetus. It can cause a multitude of complications including but not limited to low birth weight, premature delivery, preeclampsia, and possibly miscarriage.

So, before making this serious decision, it may benefit you to talk with your mother, get your feelings out in the open, before you become pregnant again, and wait a little more time for your body to recover from the pregnancy you had 5 months ago.

K everyone is entited to their opinions and questions and thoughts,don't jump down peoples throats if you don't like something IGNORE it...
No need to get nasty here people

Best of luck on getting pregnant, I do am trying right now.. I'm in the 2ww to take my test!

You need to wait to have another baby. You need to be mature enough to handle the responsibility. You also need to have your own mind. Five months after the first one and you are rearing to go again. Your mother is important but you need to be able to make decisions on your own. 20 years old is young. You need to wait several years. :)