This is real life... it can be hard, even harder than this lesson... and you are finding out earlier than some... but later than others.

This happens to many others every day as well... prepare yourself for the responsibility now...

"As the old saying goes.....You danced your dance, now its time to pay the piper..."

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Originally Posted by a90

she is pregnant and she is 21.
im just not prepared for a child.
i know i made a mistake...but i just wish there would be a way that i could get myself out of this ...this is so painfull for me because i had alot of plans for myself in the future......but thank you guys for the answerds and I apologize for the misunderstanding

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You should have thought about the consequences before you "donated" the sperm. If she carries and keeps the child, you are going to be on the hook for child support for the next 18+ years.

If only we could learn lessons before we make the mistakes. Sadly, even though there's tons of info on pregnancy, and how it occurs, people still play with fire every single day.

It's too late to turn back time. The girl is pregnant, you are the father, and the child she's carrying didn't ask for any of this. The child didn't make a mistake, and the child shouldn't have to pay for the mistake you and the mother made.

You may have plans, but now it's time to figure out how to include a baby in those plans. Like it or not, this is your responsibility.

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Originally Posted by Alty

If only we could learn lessons before we make the mistakes.

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I think that's where the saying "hindsight is 20/20" comes from.