Ask Me Help Desk - Pregnancy

I'm not stressed nor do I need counceling thank you... I used to love this site... but now I don't people are very rude... ya its ver traumatic to lose a child but I dealt with it... I don't have anger management problems and I don't need someone who doesn't no me telling me I have a problem sorry if kept asking maybe I was looking for someone else's input either then the person who insulted me by saying I need counceling and that I'm obsessed... im actually happy and excited during this time in my life and to have people put me down like that I won't except it... I didn't realize this site is filled with rude people looking out for rude people... again I appologize on my behalf but I don't apreciate it by being insalted

Again, please read the rules of the site. TEXT SPEAK IS NOT ALLOWED. It makes your posts incredibly difficult to read.

We're going to have to agree to disagree. I don't see any reason for you to be so angry and upset with anyone on this site through this thread. You were the one ranting- if that's not stress and/or anger to you, OK. Great. Asking the same question over and over again won't change the answers. If someone is going to chime in, they'll chime in whether you ask once or a million times. If all you want to do is sit here and insult and name call the people who try to help you then maybe you're right, maybe this isn't the site for you. We pride ourselves on giving the best advice we can- and sometimes that means being really honest and there aren't a whole lot of regular members here who will sugar coat things for you.

Again I said sorry.. about the name calling and on my behalf... techniclly I didn't repeat my question 21 times... sorry if I didn't read my question from 2 years ago... I forgot I wrote that... so for someone to be rude... ur not the best help on this site

Here's the issue I have, and why I posted what I did, which was by the way my opinion, not factually incorrect, and not worthy of a reddie according to the rules of this site.

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my first pregnancy was a miscarriage but my other 2 I felt 16 and then 18 weeks

So you've had 1 miscarriage, 4 pregnancies. In other words, you have had one miscarriage, gave birth to 2 kids (actually three, because in one thread you said you were having twins https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens...am-244109.html) and you're pregnant with your fourth, but you have no idea what happens during pregnancy?

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I'm only asking questions because I'm curiouse I have had misscarriages in the past

Miscarriages? You said that only your first pregnancy resulted in miscarriage.

You have 254 posts on this site since 2007. They're all pregnancy related posts. Your questions. You've asked the same things over and over again, but, when you don't want to hear the answer, you get rude. You've done it before in other threads.

You just want to hear what you want to hear. You don't care about facts, because you've been told the facts but you continue to argue about them.

Here's a sad fact. Even though you only have 254 posts in 3 years, and you're not an active member of this site, I do remember you. I don't even have to look at your past posts because I remember most of them. It's not because your posts were wonderful because they weren't. In fact, for 3 years now you've been told to stop the chat speak but you haven't. It's because you post about every little thing in each of your pregnancies. Also because even when you're told what's going on, you argue about it. You don't want advice, you want someone to tell you what you want to hear.

You may not want to admit it, but I do see a problem here. Your first post in 2007, what I assume was your first pregnancy, you were 17. You should be around 20 now and just from counting a portion of your threads (not all of them) you've had 4 pregnancies. Those are the ones you've told us about. Do you not see why I would come to the conclusion that you're obsessed with being pregnant? That and the fact that you post about every little thing, repeat questions, argue if you aren't told what you want to hear. Well, yes, personally, I think counseling would be a good idea for you.

In the end, I can voice my opinion based on what you've told us, and you can either take it to heart or ignore it. That's your decision.

Pregnant or not, I will tell you what I see. I will tell you the truth. Being pregnant doesn't mean you get treated differently than anyone else coming here for advice, especially since you're always pregnant when you're on the site looking for answers.