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  • Jul 29, 2012, 10:04 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by brittanybreen View Post
    hey okay, well me an my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex since augest 11th last year, we have had unprotected sex this whole time an i havent gotten prego.. i am 19 years of age an hes 21, hes told me hes had two kids before with his baby mama, for ever ago.. i have never been on birth control either, an i am really worried that somthing is wrong with me.. please help?!

    Are you trying to conceive? Are you tracking ovulation?

    It takes the average couple 1-2 years to conceive once they start trying. If you are actively trying to conceive, and haven't after the 2 year mark, see a fertility specialist.

    If you're asking why you haven't conceived while having unprotected sex for the last year, without trying to conceive. Well, it's called luck, or fertility issues. You're either not having sex on your fertile days, or you got lucky, or you have fertility issues.
  • Jul 29, 2012, 10:11 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lizeth_galarza View Post
    Same thing has happened with me and my boyfriend we want a bby so bad nd we don't use protection. Wen I meet him iwas a virgen nd we done it iwas scared cause I didn't bleed ????

    Are you old enough to be having sex? You definitely don't have a clue about sex, your body, or spelling properly, so I'm wondering.

    First, its baby, not bby.
    And, not and
    When, not when
    virgin, not virgen
    Twice you wrote "I was" as one word, "iwas". Mistake, or do you actually think it's spelled that way? Sigh. My brain hurts. This is the future? Heaven help us. :(

    Some women bleed their first time because the hymen is broken during sex. Not all women have a hymen. Some are born without one, some tear it before they have sex. A hymen can be torn falling off your bike, horse back riding, and many other ways. Not every woman that has a hymen bleeds the first time. It depends on the woman, her body, and the man, but I'm pretty sure in this case it's the girl, her body, and the boy. I doubt you're adults.

    I would seriously consider holding off on a "bby" until you actually understand how sex and your body works. Learning to spell properly would be a bonus.

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