Great idea to bring a child into this world when you "was" doing hard drugs, and your boyfriend just "smokes pot." Grow up a little first sweetheart.

This thread was started 2yrs ago... I don't think the op is even subscribed any longer

Yea I know how you feel. I've been only trying for 6 months. But my fiancé and I smoke week and cigarettes. BUT I did this stuff last year and I got pregnant by a kid who did a bunch of other drugs. But any ways, as I been trying lately, I was also stressed. My fiancé would go to Delaware all week and come home whenever. He wouldn't be reliable when it came to making plans. But lately he's been working here, and coming home every night. So this is where I'm getting at... don't stress, and don't always look up to be on the dot to try and conceive. It'll suck even more when you do exactly what you're suippose to and not get pregnant.

[QUOTE=rach0513] I know how you feel but I wouldn't worry too much you have only been trying 3 months. My husband and I have have been trying for 2 years. I am deathly afraid that I can't get pregnant or it is my husband. But like I said u have only been trying for 3 months don't think about it have fun with it. That's what everyone keeps telling me don't think about it or worry about it it will happen when it happens. Believe I am so sick :-X of hearing that but it is true what else can u d

Hi,
I understand how you feel. It took my husband and I 7 months to get pregnant and along that journey I often felt like it would never happen. It took a friend of mine 13 months to get pregnant with her first child. View it as a process that takes time. I think it is important to be realistic about it and to keep positive. The probability is that you will be pregnant within 12 months. Remember this and edit those negative thoughts out.

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Hi,
I understand how you feel. It took my husband and I 7 months to get pregnant and along that journey I often felt like it would never happen. It took a friend of mine 13 months to get pregnant with her first child. View it as a process that takes time. I think it is important to be realistic about it and to keep positive. The probability is that you will be pregnant within 12 months. Remember this and edit those negative thoughts out.

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Hun this is three years old. Chances are this person may not even be an active member anymore.

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I have been trying to get pregnant only 3 months and no luck yet. But for some reason I'm starting to get scared that I can't get pregnant. Is that crazy? How long did it take you to get pregnant with your first child?

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I have the same problem I've been trying to get pregnant over one year I'm so worried

I've been trying to get pregnant now for 2 years and I have only got pregnant once but lost it and I'm still trying and still every month I get my period I really don't know what to do its really getting me down and I'm worried ill never beable to have a child what should I do if anyone can help me please do so thank you :)

Dear Saidas,

My husband and I tried for 2 full years before we got pregnant with our first child. He is 2 now, and we have been trying for about a year and a half to get pregnant again with no luck. We are both young, we had our first child in our middle 20's, and I am now on my late 20's, so the age thing doesn't really apply to us. I don't know why it takes us so long.

We also have other friends, the same age and everything, who also got pregnant after 2 years of trying. Maybe it's just harder to conceive now, with all the chemicals and stuff. I think you still have plenty of time before you start to panic.

Me and my partner av been trying for a baby for 3 years now and still I isn't got pregnant (scary) I feel left out because all of my sister's av a least 3 kids each & id like to av my own child. Myself and my Bf don't even use condoms as he likes it you know what men are like lol.. I really hope I can av kids well if not id adopt a child and class Her/Him As My Own .
Can anyone give me some advice?
Thank's !

Try not to worry too much. Three months may seem so long to you because you really want this and its not happening as fast as you would like it to. My husband and I were in the same boat. I would have put money on it that there was something wrong with me. We were trying for 7 months and finally when I least expected it I found out I was pregnant! Now I am 9 weeks 6 days.

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I have been trying to get pregnant only 3 months and no luck yet. But for some reason I'm starting to get scared that I can't get pregnant. Is that crazy? How long did it take you to get pregnant with your first child?

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Hi I'm madeleine there's lots of things you can try I've started taking a tablet called pregnacare recently, I've been trying for over 3 years now! So hang in there sweety and don't try to hard! But you could also try folic acid, don't be scared there's lots of different things out there. Take care and good luck.

I know how you feel & I know how hard it can be. My husband & I have been trying to for a year & a half. My sister in law just got pregnant. It hurts to be around someone so close to you who is pregnant & seems to enjoy letting the entire world know & always talking about it & constantly reminding EVERYONE. She didn't want to have kids in the first place. Its hard being around someone who gets pregnant so easily & didn't want it in the first place but its something you got to deal with:(. But I hope it happens for you. I won't tell you to stop worrying & not think about it because Ive been told countless times to do that & its easier said than done. I will wish you luck & hope you have better luck than I am having.

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I was wonder if I could get pregnant again do to me having an abortion five years ago and I just had my iud tooking out and it seen like I can't get pregnant:( :(

Hi have a 3 year old son... been with my current boyfriend for 3 years and never used contriception and still not pregnant , he smokes a lot is that the reason ? I am really frustrated as my son is becoming one of those only child brats (lol) and he needs a sibling what's wrong with me I am at my wits end? Xx

I have been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for over a year now and I have never fallen pregnant I am worried that I can't have babies and that I am too old to conceive. I am also worried that his smoking is damaging his sperm. Are there any home fertility tests that a woman can take??

I am Diabectic and I can't get pregnant! Me and my boifriend tried on and off for a year and a half buh nuttin... and then October 16 I went on the depo shot and I got off iton the 16 of January 2009 ten we been tryinq till this day wats wrong wit me??

Hi I know exactly how you feel hun, me and my boyfriend started trying for a baby 2 months ago nearly and I can't help either that dreaded feeling of will it ever happen but I am sure it will, I think that because we want it to happen and it does not happen when I want it to like now!! But it is just a matter of being patient and biding our time, good look hunny x

Hi everyone I'm 17.. I'm having irregular periods and having discharge everydayy I'm worried I cannot get pregnant? Can anyone help me? x :(

I was told that I would never have kids without the help of fertility pills or invitro, and I have a 2 year old and one on the way and I had a miscarriage a few months before I got pregnant. You just have to have some patience. Take your time and enjoy the baby making process. 3 months is not a long enough time frame for trying. Some people are just Really fertile and others it just takes some time.