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Originally Posted by J_9

I know we gave you a lecutre, but sometimes reality has to smack us in the face to wake us up.

I am sure H will agree with that one!!!!!!

We just wanted to provide you with cold hard facts so that you are sure you are making the right decision.

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I agree 100% - we just don't want you to go into something blindfolded, we are just trying to look out for you that's all!

I have never had any test for other things except all of the sti's. I haven't had a smear test done. I have don't have regular periods this may not be helpful. I have had to but ovulation kits to see the days I ovulate

Book yourself an appt. with your gynea asap. Its very important to do a smear test once sexually active and besides its also very important now as you trying for a baby.

If your periods are not regular then this could be a problem in itself - but only your gp can advise you properly. I am glad you have bought the ovulation kits as this will also help - but as I am sure J_9 and KRS will agree you need to make an appointment to see the professionals who know what they are talking about after all we can only give you ideas as to what might be going on rather than what actually is - everyone is different and every case is different.