I didn't say I wanted one but if it happens I will keep it
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I didn't say I wanted one but if it happens I will keep it
Well that's entirely different. We assumed that when you said that you'd be happy if you were pregnant, that you were trying to get pregnant. Do you understand where that might be confusing? Next time clarify better, so that we have more understanding on the situation, thus being able to help you easier.Quote:
Originally Posted by hisgirlherman
Understand, that it's very disheartening when young people get pregnant. We know you're not ready, and it saddens us that society has somehow transformed to where children are having sex at a young age.
But If you think about it, Back a long time ago, before more modern times, it was not uncommon for children to be married as young as 14. Thus meaning that they were having sex.
I think that the only differences between now and then, are means of support, and we realize now how important it is for a child to be able to have their childhood for as long as possible. Because once you become a grown-up, you can't go back to being a little kid. It's important that you not want to grow up to fast. You don't want to miss out on your childhood. I know I did, albeit from a different situation, but I think the last time I was able to be a kid was around 13. That's TOO young.
I think its not a good thing to bash people on trivial matters such as spelling. I've seen a lot of that here and that's a bit of a turn off. I myself am a poor speller and rely on firefox's spell check to do most of my thinking.
But to the matter at hand...
It is entirely possible that you are pregnant. There is a very small chance that you'd be showing by now... you maybe sick or something else. You're definitely due for your monthly and maybe have a little bloating going on. Also pseudo pregnancy can make you sick. My girlfriend went through that a while back. She thought she was pregnant and started stressing about it. Every time she is under stress, she turns up a week or two late. Coincidentally she was nauseous also.
I think its not a good thing for people who are not ready for children to be having them... and our society doesn't care. But age has little to do with it. Most people I know aren't ready at 30 or some even at 40. We live in a socially immature world. As far as waiting to guarantee support the child... that's not such a bad idea. It is a rough life with teen mother. It is hard for a teen to support the child because not many people will even hire a 16yr old, let alone full time or above minimum wage.
I can see how it makes many people happy, however I find you a noble person for making the best of things and being happy. And also not wanting to abort it or give it up.
I wish you Luck!
Info, no one claims to be a perfect speller or use perfect grammar here. But when someone comes on here and cannot even spell elementary level words, or form complete sentences, and they're talking about bringing a baby into the world before they've even finished school and insisting that they can still have a future like it's a walk in the park, that's cause for concern. That's why it was brought up. Typos here and there are entirely understandable. But chat speak and an obvious lack of attempt to correct spelling, that's irritating.
Lol, see, I accidentally put a "d "in the word "another" :)Typing too fast. Now it's driving me nuts.
Wow sweetie, I was 16 when I got pregnant and I don't regret my daughter at all she is now almost 6 months but kids change everything!! That is nothing you should ever wish for at your age! Babies don't care if you have home work or if your tired. All they know is that need to eat sleep and be changed and mommy daddy aren't the ones who are going to take care of you baby because you have school or you want to go out with your friends. You have no idea what you are getting into. I hope you aren't pregnant, because being a teen parent is so much harder then it looks. You may be able to stay up all night now but after 9 months of tossing and turning and then a newborn that doesn't sleep threw the night isn't very easy.
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Originally Posted by kayasmommy4109
I agree with everything. Please listen to her. I'm 19 with two. They don't care they just know what mama and daddy suppose to do
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