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Originally Posted by wantingababy

Earlier this year, my boyfriend made me chose between him and having a baby. Stupidly I chose him, and had an abortion which I so deeply regret.

Straight after my op the doctors fitted me with a coil which gave me endless problems so I later had it removed.

Since then I have desperately wanted a baby, and 9 months later my partner has said he wants one (I don't know why he couldn't have said that 9 months before) but now after trying, I can't get pregnant and my period is always 10 days late.

I am so scared that I won't be able to have children and the only person to blame is myself.

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don't mind the negative comments I read this and write in with comments that may help people but not all people have the brains to do the same if I read something I don't feel I can help with I don't respond and that's what that ignorant person should have done I went through the same as u and have the same regrets I suppose it normal after going through it and if u decide to try again for a baby I wish u all the best as I know I will when I am ready u must have felt the same as your boyfriend at the time?I do sometimes try and blame my boyfriend but I think its only because I feel bad now 4 what I did I was 100% set on the abortion before hand and am still sure I did the rite thing for now but sometimes long for a baby but think back to when u were pregnant and I'm sure ul wait till your both ready and again don't mind the no brainer they need to get a life and a more open mind and realise people have feelings and go back to there perfect fairy tale lives Best of luck to u x x

don't mind the negative comments I read this and write in with comments that may help people but not all people have the brains to do the same if I read something I don't feel I can help with I don't respond and that's what that ignorant person should have done I went through the same as u and have the same regrets I suppose it normal after going through it and if u decide to try again for a baby I wish u all the best as I know I will when I am ready u must have felt the same as your boyfriend at the time?I do sometimes try and blame my boyfriend but I think its only because I feel bad now 4 what I did I was 100% set on the abortion before hand and am still sure I did the rite thing for now but sometimes long for a baby but think back to when u were pregnant and I'm sure ul wait till your both ready and again don't mind the no brainer they need to get a life and a more open mind and realise people have feelings and go back to there perfect fairy tale lives Best of luck to u x x

Yes,i think you will be able to have children after the abortion.do not worry.

Yes,i think you will be able to have children after the abortion.do not worry.