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  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:45 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    its not late 4 this month its suppose 2 come in 3days but since she did that stupid thing could there have been alive sprem n her saliva

    You can't get pregnant from "swallowing", and by now the sperm is probably dead anyway.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:46 AM
    jrb252000
    Even if there was it would not be able to make the journey to fertilize an egg. Hence the word penetration.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:48 AM
    lele445454
    She says she didn't swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:50 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    she says she didnt swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina

    You can't get pregnant that way. Ejaculate and pre-ejaculate have to be shot up close to the cervix, which is why only penetration can get you pregnant.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:50 AM
    jrb252000
    You can not get pregnant that way... however since he penetrated her he could have released precum which the male doesn't feel and that could have gotten her pregnant.
    Based on the questions you are asking you all need to talk to a trusted adult about sex and discontinue having it.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:52 AM
    lele445454
    Pre cun
    Hi my sister has bv and had intercourse can tha partner get it could she get pregnant still if they had sex unprotected
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:53 AM
    jrb252000
    Would you stop asking these annoying questions... anytime you have unprotected sex you run the risk of pregnancy and getting an STD
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:54 AM
    lele445454
    Can men bust and not no it during a pulling out method? Does the girl feel it
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:56 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    can men bust and not no it during a pulling out method? does the girl feel it

    That is the thing about the pull out method. The male has to have a lot of self control, and you are putting all of your trust into him. There are cases when the male has had an "accident" and accidentally ejaculated inside of the female. He didn't have any control over it. That is why you need to at least use condoms.

    If you are referring to pre-ejaculate, yes he does this throughout sex and you or he cannot feel it. It is meant to be a form of lubrication but it does contain a small amount of sperm.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 08:58 AM
    LearningAsIGo
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    she says she didnt swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina

    Swallowing it has nothing to do with getting pregnant. Fingers can be enough to get it "up there" Its just too risky, so she shouldn't be engaging in this type of activity without real protection.

    Its possible, but not very probable.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:01 AM
    lele445454
    I was using tha pulling out method on my fertile 1st day which was 23rd we having sex and he pulls out but there is 2 drops of semen on his leg but he said he busted could it have been inside of me?
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:03 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    i was using tha pullin out method on my fertile 1st day which was 23rd we having sex and he pulls out but there is 2 drops of semen on his leg but he said he busted could it have been inside of me?

    If you don't know the answers to any of these questions you have no business having sex.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:05 AM
    lele445454
    Can you answer tha question please I know but I'm not 2 sure
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:06 AM
    J_9
    You are asking for a friend or for yourself. Come out with the truth. We are not here to play games.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:07 AM
    nauticalstar420
    He could have ejaculated anywhere. That is why you need to stop putting so much trust into men by not using protection. Depending on how young you are, if you get pregnant at a young age a young man might not want to stick around and help you, so you'll be alone and raising a baby. Do you want that?
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:07 AM
    jrb252000
    You need to talk to a nurse or other trusted adult about sex... if you can't understand the basic concept of all the answers you got from all the threads you posted stop having sex. I would go to the nearest planned parenthood and request pregnancy test, and test for every STD.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:08 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jrb252000
    You need to talk to a nurse or other trusted adult about sex...if you can't understand the basic concept of all the answers you got from all the threads you posted stop having sex. I would go to the nearest planned parenthood and request pregnancy test, and test for every STD.

    And then request birth control if you cannot stop having sex.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:11 AM
    lele445454
    No I wouldn't want that but we been having sex like this 4 2yrs nothing happens I'm 20 yrs old my birthday is today
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:13 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lele445454
    no i wouldnt want that but we been havin sex like this 4 2yrs nothin happens im 20 yrs old my bday is 2day

    Well maybe for your birthday you should get yourself some birth control. It will help you in the long run, trust me. There are guys that don't want to stick around and help raise a baby. They feel they have better things to do. I know that sounds harsh, but it is the truth.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 09:13 AM
    jrb252000
    OMG can someone kick her off... you are that old and you haven't the first clue about sex... I hope you enjoyed your little game here today... there are some people who really need help and advice please go find something else to do

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