Hey bill... I would stick with the premix... just mix it so it is stiff like mentioned earlier.
You are right that lime will make this sticky and that is why you work this as dryer mix... ;)
3 to 1 or 4 to 1 ratios are both OK here (stronger at 3 to 1... but have used both ratios successfully over the years)... as long as subfloor is in good condition! It is only a shower floor and I don't want to play that down, but you have prepped properly... so you should be fine here.
Let me know when I can help.