Mark, you brought up probably the most important factor, which is the vac breaker on the water supply. Good catch. However, I still see ball valves controlling water to urinals in some of the old bars in my town, makes me wonder if the inspector is getting free beer for life or what. The thing about water supply is if its not done properly, you don't only affect your own house, but can potentially contaminate other peoples water. So yes, a vac breaker is really something you should add to the water feed of the urinal.
Mancave, the threads on top of the urinal do not match the threads of the copper female adapter you are planning to use(however it may work with enough teflon). They are not tapered threads. The threads on top of the urinal are for a rubber gasket seal. This is were the vacuum breaker tailpiece would connect to the urinal when using a flushometer.
The thing is, I have a feeling you are going to do what you are going to do, and by all means, have at it. Just keep in mind that there really is a reason for codes, we don't push them for the fun of it, we do it for safe and sanitary living for all.
That being said, do as you will do, and enjoy that pisser. Lee.