Originally Posted by giggles
Is this woman taking meds for her manic depression? It doesn't sound like it. And that is also NO excuse for her behaviour.
YOU on the other hand are the father. What are YOU going to do about it?
How can you shun a 3yr old? What sort of man are you? Why are you even ASKING about this?
Sort it out! Your marriage is obviously a mess, but don't make a mess of your children into the bargain. I'm sure they have the holiday from hell with a stepmother like that. Who says they even WANT to visit you each year!
It's not a 'talk' as you put it. It's the way things ARE. They are YOUR children. That should come first. Not some cowardly wish to keep the peace. People like you really should be reported. The damage you could end up doing to your little children is not worth thinking about. Get away from this cruel woman, sort out your backbone and learn how to be a good father (for a meagre three weeks of every year, it shouldn't be that hard.):mad: