Ask Me Help Desk - My parents hate me

Please can you give me one more chance. I know lying is bad, but I did not know what trolling is. I did not mean to lie. Please don't call the cops on my daddy. I was wrong. I don't know what I was thinking even posting here. Im not used to the internet. It was all me I was lying. I promise I have learned my lesson and I won't lie again.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I also want to know that you are much more cooperative and cheerfully participating in household chores. I also want you to work harder with school stuff. And learn how to spell the word apology.

I will, thank you! Also I am sorry for lying to you. I know its bad, but its my first time on the internet. And I did not know what trolling is.

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Originally Posted by Alty

There are serious consequences to lying like this. Also, how do we know that she's really lying? Maybe she isn't, and she reached out for help when you caught her posting online. When you realized that she was finally going to get help, you forced her to say she's lying. It happens all the time. Kids being abused, too afraid to say anything because they'll be further abused.

We've had this sort of situation on this site before. There was a guy on this site that came her asking for help with a legal case. He was arrested for paying for the plane ticket of a 15 year old girl. He was in his 20's. He knew she was 15, he planned to have sex with her in a hotel he booked.

Of course he didn't admit that to the police, but he admitted it all here. He's now in jail in large part because we contacted the FBI and sent his posts to them.

Really, there are so many lies on this thread, I don't know what to believe. Maybe we should get the police involved, just to make sure. If your child is lying, she'll pay for it. If not, we're taking her out of harms way. I really don't think we should just believe what you're saying and take it for fact. After all, we believed your daughter, and now we're told it's all a lie. So who's lying?

I will now tell the truth. I am lying. My dad did not do any of this. I swear this is the truth. I wanted to make it more urgent. I don't know what trolling is. I am sorry. This is my first time. Please give me one more chance. I won't do anything like this again.

If there is no more questions, then I will go to my dad for our talk. Thanks guys. I am so sorry about telling lies.

How old are you?

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

Please can you give me one more chance. I know lying is bad, but i did not know what trolling is. I did not mean to lie. Please don't call the cops on my daddy. I was wrong. I dont know what i was thinking even posting here. Im not used to the internet. It was all me i was lying. I promise I have learned my lesson and I wont lie again.

Sigh.

My gut is telling me to get the cops involved. I don't believe for a minute that your parents were posting here. Not for one second. I believe that you've been lying about everything on this thread. I don't think you've uttered one true thing since you started here.

Kid, lying is a really big deal. Even if you didn't know what trolling was, you knew that lying was bad, but you did it anyway.

Why should I believe that you learned a lesson, that you won't lie again? You haven't said one true things since you first posted, so why would I believe you now?

I have kids, one is a teen. I would hope that if he went online and told a huge lie like the one you did, that I wouldn't end up in jail because of it. So, I'll give you a second chance. But know this. I only give 2 chances. Screw up again, and you'll deal with the consequences of your actions. You can't always hide behind "I didn't know", because you did. You knew from the very beginning that lying is wrong, but you did it anyway, you just figured you'd get away with it, and you didn't realize that it could get you into this much trouble. Keep it up and you won't need us to call the cops, you'll end up in jail all by yourself.

Get your act together kid. That's a word of advice you really should take to heart, and it's for your own good.

I am 10 yeers old.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Sigh.

My gut is telling me to get the cops involved. I don't believe for a minute that your parents were posting here. Not for one second. I believe that you've been lying about everything on this thread. I don't think you've uttered one true thing since you started here.

Kid, lying is a really big deal. Even if you didn't know what trolling was, you knew that lying was bad, but you did it anyway.

Why should I believe that you learned a lesson, that you won't lie again? You haven't said one true things since you first posted, so why would I believe you now?

I have kids, one is a teen. I would hope that if he went online and told a huge lie like the one you did, that I wouldn't end up in jail because of it. So, I'll give you a second chance. But know this. I only give 2 chances. Screw up again, and you'll deal with the consequences of your actions. You can't always hide behind "I didn't know", because you did. You knew from the very beginning that lying is wrong, but you did it anyway, you just figured you'd get away with it, and you didn't realize that it could get you into this much trouble. Keep it up and you won't need us to call the cops, you'll end up in jail all by yourself.

Get your act together kid. That's a word of advice you really should take to heart, and it's for your own good.

Thank you so much for the chances. I am so sorry. I swear I won't screw up again.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

I am 10 yeers old.

Is that the truth?

You will post on Tuesday evening, or at least message me that things are improving and you have stopped lying?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Is that the truth?

You will post on Tuesday evening, or at least message me that things are improving and you have stopped lying?

I know it will be hard to trust me, but I made a promise to the other person not to lie again. I will make sure to post on Tuesday evening, and I will make sure it is the truth, nothing but the truth. I swear I will message you.

May I post the truth of what actually happened? From now on, this is the truth.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

I know it will be hard to trust me, but I made a promise to the other person not to lie again. I will make sure to post on tuesday evening, and I will make sure it is the truth, nothing but the truth. I swear I will message you.

Thank you. I am going to close this thread, so either start a new one on this board or message me. Do this anytime after you get home from school. I will be waiting.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

May I post the truth of what actually happened? From now on, this is the truth.

Okay. Go. Tell us.

Waiht how do I message you?

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

waiht how do i message you?

Just post on this board. That will be fine. Alty will want to see it too.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Okay. Go. Tell us.

So I did not do my work and my dad had slapped me. Then I had not talked since I fealt a little anger. He never cursed or beat me. This is the truth. I wanted to know how to work out a plan to do something before the slaps.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Just post on this board. That will be fine. Alty will want to see it too.

I am grateful to both of you for teaching me not to lie. Please rest assured that both of you guys can have trust in me from now on. I don't know how to prove it, but I am telling the truth now.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

So I did not do my work and my dad had slapped me. Then i had not talked since i fealt a little anger. He never cursed or beat me. This is the truth. I wanted to know how to work out a plan to do something before the slaps.

Simple. Do the work you are supposed to do.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Simple. Do the work you are supposed to do.

Okay, I guess I made a fuss about it. Thanks.

Just remember, I can smell a lie like a fart in a car. I have two kids, my youngest is 10, just like you. I read this thread to her. She's shocked. She would never even think about lying, especially not like this.

She has a message for you.

Ninjaawsome, lying isn't okay. My mom is a great mom, the best mom ever, and she was going to do anything to help you. It's really bad that you lied to her and to the other lady. Don't do it again. It's not cool. If you have a real problem, my mom will help you, but you can't lie okay?

Me again.

Yes, it will be hard to trust you, but it's not impossible. Tell the truth and you won't have to worry about anything. If you do need help, we're here, and we can and will get help to you if you can't get it yourself. But you have to be honest with us. We can't help you if you lie. Okay?

Remember, I'm giving you a second chance. But screw up that second chance, and you're going to wish the cops had come to get you, because they'll be easier to deal with. ;)