Ask Me Help Desk - My parents hate me

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

Ok they are both willing to co-operate. They are the ones chatting now

I want one of them to be typing and responding directly to me.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

I just wanted help on how to solve with my parents. They are telling me right now like i told them about how i posted rashly and how i did not mean what i meant. They are looking at your comments, and think that you can help us solve our conflict

Ya, not buying it.

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

You lied from the beginning, and you're lying now. Kiddo, we're not your friends, we're not easily fooled. We look at what makes sense, and you going from "I'm being beaten, I'm crying, I want to run away, I need help" to "Everything is fine now, we talked, we cried, we hugged, we worked it all out and they want your help fixing our conflict" in 30 minutes, when there hasn't been so much as a one minute break between your posts, is a bunch of bull!

If you want to lie to someone, lie to someone that's stupid enough to believe you.

Good bye.

I am very grateful for you support for my daughter. See I slapped her since she did not follow what I said. And now she is pissed. I know I have to talk to her about this, but can you give me suggestions just like you gave my daughter some?

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Originally Posted by Alty

Ya, not buying it.

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

You lied from the beginning, and you're lying now. Kiddo, we're not your friends, we're not easily fooled. We look at what makes sense, and you going from "I'm being beaten, I'm crying, I want to run away, I need help" to "Everything is fine now, we talked, we cried, we hugged, we worked it all out and they want your help fixing our conflict" in 30 minutes, when there hasn't been so much as a one minute break between your posts, is a bunch of bull!

If you want to lie to someone, lie to someone that's stupid enough to believe you.

Good bye.

My daughter says that she did not know the reason why I was hitting her.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

I am very grateful for you support for my daughter. See I slapped her since she did not follow what I said. and now she is pissed. I know I have to talk to her about this, but can you give me suggestions just like you gave my daughter some?

Boot camp. Your daughter almost had the police and CPS at your house tonight because of her lies. You could have gone to jail, and she could have ended up in foster care.

My advice is that she stop lying. For instance, pretending that we're actually talking to her parents right now, that's just insulting! We're not that stupid!

She should be aware that trolling a site (which is what she did, and is continuing to do) is against the law. So it really would be in her best interest to start telling the truth, otherwise it won't be her choice to have the cops at your house anymore.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

My daughter says that she did not know the reason why I was hitting her.

Why were you hitting her?

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Originally Posted by Alty

Boot camp. Your daughter almost had the police and CPS at your house tonight because of her lies. You could have gone to jail, and she could have ended up in foster care.

My advice is that she stop lying. For instance, pretending that we're actually talking to her parents right now, that's just insulting! We're not that stupid!

She should be aware that trolling a site (which is what she did, and is continuing to do) is against the law. So it really would be in her best interest to start telling the truth, otherwise it won't be her choice to have the cops at your house anymore.

Yes I do realize that about my daughter. She has a tendency to lie. She did not tell the entire story why.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Why were you hitting her?

It was a slap and she herself admits it now. She did not do what I asked her to do.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Boot camp. Your daughter almost had the police and CPS at your house tonight because of her lies. You could have gone to jail, and she could have ended up in foster care.

My advice is that she stop lying. For instance, pretending that we're actually talking to her parents right now, that's just insulting! We're not that stupid!

She should be aware that trolling a site (which is what she did, and is continuing to do) is against the law. So it really would be in her best interest to start telling the truth, otherwise it won't be her choice to have the cops at your house anymore.

I am grateful for your advice. I would never beat my daughter even if she does not do what I say.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

It was a slap and she herself admits it now. She did not do what I asked her to do.

What about the rest of her story?

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They beat me and yell at me when every I get bad grades or do accidents

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My dad barely talks to me. Everyday when I get home he is in his room typing up on the computer, and barely speaks. When he does, he's like you are a disgrace. How dare you do poorly in school you piece of shi*t. He curses at me so much,

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I just want to leave my house and run away. My mom is the same

So she admits that you don't beat her, that it was just a slap. What about the rest of it? Cursing at your child, telling them they're a disgrace, calling them a piece of sh*t on a daily basis, that's verbal abuse. Abuse is abuse.

I still think that CPS and the police should be called to this home, and this thread used as evidence.

If all of her posts are lies, then the police should be contacted because internet trolling is also against the law.

I am now going to have a 1 on 1 talk with my daughter personal and away from the computer. I will ask for guidance later. I really appreciate what you have done.

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Originally Posted by Alty

What about the rest of her story?

So she admits that you don't beat her, that it was just a slap. What about the rest of it? Cursing at your child, telling them they're a disgrace, calling them a piece of sh*t on a daily basis, that's verbal abuse. Abuse is abuse.

I still think that CPS and the police should be called to this home, and this thread used as evidence.

She was lying about that. And she admitted it too. I am sorry this was a bunch of lies. I will have a 1 on 1 conference not to lie again.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

I am now going to have a 1 on 1 talk with my daughter personal and away from the computer. I will ask for guidance later. I really appreciate what you have done.

Not yet. She owes me a response to a request I made to her.

What was that request she should respond to?

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Originally Posted by Alty

What about the rest of her story?

So she admits that you don't beat her, that it was just a slap. What about the rest of it? Cursing at your child, telling them they're a disgrace, calling them a piece of sh*t on a daily basis, that's verbal abuse. Abuse is abuse.

I still think that CPS and the police should be called to this home, and this thread used as evidence.

If all of her posts are lies, then the police should be contacted because internet trolling is also against the law.

I never used any curse words against my daughter. She picked them up from her school. She is not admitting to these lies she made.

But now she says that she is really sorry and that she was just slapped. I can give it to her if you want.

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

What was that request she should respond to?

I want her to report to me Tuesday evening that things are much improved (or not).

Ok, I will report on how my parents are. Im sorry for lying. I just wanted to make it urgent and get support faster. I owe everyone an opology.

There are serious consequences to lying like this. Also, how do we know that she's really lying? Maybe she isn't, and she reached out for help when you caught her posting online. When you realized that she was finally going to get help, you forced her to say she's lying. It happens all the time. Kids being abused, too afraid to say anything because they'll be further abused.

We've had this sort of situation on this site before. There was a guy on this site that came her asking for help with a legal case. He was arrested for paying for the plane ticket of a 15 year old girl. He was in his 20's. He knew she was 15, he planned to have sex with her in a hotel he booked.

Of course he didn't admit that to the police, but he admitted it all here. He's now in jail in large part because we contacted the FBI and sent his posts to them.

Really, there are so many lies on this thread, I don't know what to believe. Maybe we should get the police involved, just to make sure. If your child is lying, she'll pay for it. If not, we're taking her out of harms way. I really don't think we should just believe what you're saying and take it for fact. After all, we believed your daughter, and now we're told it's all a lie. So who's lying?

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Originally Posted by ninjaawsome

Ok, I will report on how my parents are. Im sorry for lying. I just wanted to make it urgent and get support faster. I owe everyone an opology.

I also want to know that you are much more cooperative and cheerfully participating in household chores. I also want you to work harder with school stuff. And learn how to spell the word apology.