OP last I heard guys also do the same often its not all effing girls. Or Fecking girls .

Be honest and tell her you don't want on Facebook. Tell her the truth. Ask her to take you off her friends list.

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What is the best way to gain attention / attraction of a beautiful woman.

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What is the best way to gain attention / attraction of a beautiful woman.

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Hello guy:

Make 'em laugh.

excon

Have millions of dollars, or be a pro sports player

Paradoxically, not trying to attract them can often be very powerful, trust me.

Very attractive women get a lot of male attention. By not trying to impress her, you find come across as impressive. I hope that helps.

Oh, and not being smelly and having nice teeth. And women like shoes, get over it. ;)

I would say, dress well, have confidence, but not cockiness, have a decent job, have a clean cut and stay clean.

However, keep in mind that every woman has different tastes. So if you appeal to one woman, it doesn't mean you will appeal to another.

Regret is a nightmare... Choices you make roads you take... Realising you took the wrong road, or that the other did not care for you as much as they claimed to, is very, very hard to live with. I am there now.

Hi onlineguy, we all have to deal with this particular issue in life, we can't escape it, that's how we learn how to make the right choices in life. Too bad we have to wait till we are older to learn it though.

Been there done that.

Tick

You HAVE to look at it from the correct angle.

One can not change the past... they can only influence the future.

Thus dwelling on "what was" or "what might have been", is a waste of time because what's done is done... you should instead look at "what can be", and "how can I take this and make more of it."

I know the question you are asking. I have asked it myself many times. There is no answer. I can only offer suggestions. It is difficult to have your heart destroyed by your own actions or another person's. If it is your own actions, do not run from your mistake. Accept it. Remember it. If you don't, then you will repeat it when the next situation comes. If it is someone else who has harmed your emotions, stop thinking of what you could have done to prevent it. You couldn't. As a reverend, most people expect me to quote "Divine Planning" or "God's Will", but it's bullsh*t. Yes, I said it. The simple thing is that your choices, and the choices of others, are what got you where you are, and it can not be undone. Your future is not preset, your choices make it what it will be. That in mind, the past being unchangeable, the present being what's important and the future having endless possibilities, you should accept what's happened and never forget it. If someone hurt you, be happy they hurt you now, rather than later, when it could have hurt more. If you accept the fact that things can and probably will always be worse, you will learn to move on with your past through the present to enjoy the misery of the future. You can quit life, but if you do, you'll miss out on all the enjoyable misery that paves the road to happiness.

Regret, is a nightmare, because it's usually followed by guilt, remorse, and all the 'what if's', had different decisions been made at the time.

I'm not sure what you are saying in your post onlineguy. Do you regret being involved with this person, because they were not who they said they were, or turned out to be a person you didn't know?

I think you need a lot more time to heal from the disappointment of your break up, and to learn how to cope with your own feelings of loss, and rejection, so you can move beyond it and be more positive as you do. The last thing you need is to have regret turn to self pity, and you do nothing good for yourself, with family friends or activities, to support you, and show you that life moves ahead, and so should you. Right now you are dwelling too much over what was, instead of looking forward to the next adventure.

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Right now you are dwelling to much over what was, instead of looking forward to the next adventure.

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Oh, yes that next adventure was always the best one ! And then, the next one was better and so on and so on... until you find the ultimate and then it is absolutely wonderful.. have kids though, that is the absolute.. :)

It always seems that unattractive women will initiate a connection with me, but attractive women are closed off from my connection interest in them... I can't figure this out, Am I not that attractive or has looks got nothing to do with it and it's the approach that's wrong ?

Surly women should also initiate if they find a guy attractive or at least give off some signs !

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It always seems that unattractive women will initiate a connection with me, but attractive women are closed off

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Hello o:

Then go with what you've got. From my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you.

excon

Looks should have nothing to do with it, what should matter is how you like them

Stop looking for attractive women who fancy you and will make the first move. What's up with that kind of thinking?

Look for people and things that are fun. You will be much happier, and much more attractive.

Looks got nothing to do with it at all.

If you don't have the good looks to catch their eye, where the feck do you proceed from there ?

By having a great personality and a good sense of humour.

By respecting others and yourself.