Do you like to read? Do you have some favorite authors? -- Kellerman? Grafton? Evanovich? Grisham? Wiill you go there to check out a book or two? While you're there, will you strike up a conversation with a staff member or even another patron?

Meanwhile, grab a copy of their newsletter and look up what their activities will be for June.

Thanks for the advice Altenweg - I have considered dating sites but its kind of scary and I feel desperate. I know, I know Ive heard of successful outcomes and I should be open to trying it.

The reason why I am discouraged is I have tried to look at life as an adventure. I have gone on many trips, been to lots of places and met new people - yet I am still single. Its been 3 years. I have put myself in both mindsets - be more open and focused as well as the unexpected approach. Nothing. Nonetheless I will look into these dating sites. THanks