A friend, one friend, is infinitely more lasting and important than a boyfriend.
You have to work at it. It's a two way street. You get to know someone little by little, and you trust little by little, and somehow you put the fears about trust and hurts from the past behind you in order to have this one wonderful best friend. That person might have gone through some of the same things you went through, and you have a common bond. But you have to reach out. Look around you and you will see other lonely people who seem shy and sad and awkward, and say something nice to one of them about how they look that day or let's go get a juice together or hang out.

Also, to add to the previous answer, I would suggest working on a relationship with yourself. The more you discover about your likes and dislikes, strengths and weaknesses, turn ons and turn offs, and what makes you valuable to yourself and others, you will start to understand what makes you worth "it". Confidence and happiness will draw good things your way, but you have to be willing to get yourself out there.

Well there's this guy I since high school and we started talking again threw aim and he say he really wants to see me and I was like yeah same here so he said we should hang out next week go to the theaters but drink a 4 loko before do I seem like a girl that settles for anything should my expectations be higher or should I just accept and go?

Ewwwww. Raise the bar for yourself, girl!

Meanwhile, work on that punctuation and spelling!

Ok thanks ms. Rude I'm here for advice not for

Yea, you really should hold out for a guy who wants to treat you better

Someone who is going to criticize you and put u more down

Ok thanks addy that's the answer I was l

Ok thanks addy that's the answer I was lOoking for But I'm guessing is more of a hang out then a date ?

If it's a hang out, why drink 4 Loko first? Sounds like he has something up his sleeve besides his arm.

I wasn't putting you down. It was a helpful suggestion for you to realize how difficult it is for people to read your posts and so you'd make an attempt to write more clearly.

You're talking to this male:

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Originally Posted by Ellybaby

Well there's this guy I since highschool and we started talking again threw aim and he say he really wants to see me and I was like yeah same here so he said we should hang out next week go to the theaters but drink a 4 loko before do I seem like a girl that settles for anything should my expectations be higher or should I just accept and go?

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You recently had sex with this male:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...gn-556338.html

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Originally Posted by Ellybaby

Well I had sex on Thursday of last week I used protection but on saturday I literally threw up in my mouth it was so gross and at this moment I feel like throwing up! And I had sex just a few days after I had my period and I my next period is in the beginning if the month and I been spotting for about two days and I didnt have sex for about a yr and thursday was the first time I had sex in a yr can I be pregnant?

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Since I don't think this thread is about the same male you had sex with a week or so ago, I have to ask: What are your expectations? How highly do you think of yourself? What is your relationship with male you had sex with (and have least worried about being pregnant by)?

Please take care of yourself. I am very concerned that you are trying to make yourself feel better by playing very adult games with very adult consequences.

You have opened several threads about your problems - I think they should all be combined. Some of the info is different from other info.

As far as rude - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ut-557890.html. When you ask for advice you get advice. Please don't attempt to dictate who will answer you and in what manner.

After reading your threads I think you need to speak to a professional. You are troubled and have issues on many levels.

Perhaps talking all of this out would help you come to some resolution.