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  • Aug 30, 2010, 09:02 AM
    Notmyrealuser

    And what exactly am I entitled too?

    And I don't know if you know this genius, but people who talk about their past talk as if they are reliving it. Nice amount of ASSumptions on your part though.
  • Aug 30, 2010, 09:28 AM
    slapshot_oi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Notmyrealuser View Post
    And I don't know if you know this genius, but people who talk about their past talk as if they are reliving it.

    What?
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Notmyrealuser View Post
    Nice amount of ASSumptions on your part though.

    Hey no problem! It's kind of like how you assume most people don't have 30 years of trauma.

    Assuming you have it worse than most people is offensive, as if we're not as wise as you are, at your level, and so on (i.e. entitlement). Whatever. I hope you find what you're looking for.
  • Aug 30, 2010, 09:43 AM
    Notmyrealuser

    I don't exactly need to assume. An estimated 7.8% of people will experience ptsd at some point in their lives:

    PTSD Fact Sheet

    Far less will experience it for 30 years or so.

    Argue against facts.

    Now what am I entitled too? Because I'm simply trying to get through school and fight what I don't want to become.
  • Aug 30, 2010, 09:05 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Notmyrealuser View Post
    I don't exactly need to assume. An estimated 7.8% of people will experience ptsd at some point in their lives:

    PTSD Fact Sheet

    Far less will experience it for 30 years or so.

    Argue against facts.

    Now what am I entitled too? Because I'm simply trying to get through school and fight what I don't want to become.




    You need to change your attitude and be thankful for the people here
    Who give their time to answer your questions and try to help.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 02:19 AM
    Notmyrealuser
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    You need to change your attitude and be thankful for the people here
    who give thier time to answer your questions and try to help.

    Helping now is making assumptions (That are very obviously wrong and can be proving wrong)? Could've fooled me. I never made the topic to show entitlement or anything. Once again, what am I entitled too?

    If I am so much wiser then everyone, why would I even be posting this? Why would I have posted 31 years of private information? You would be hard pressed to find someone else who would randomly tell you what they did TODAY.

    And how does the guy know I haven't moved on simply because I 'relived them' when I spoke? Anytime someone speaks of their past they remember it, which was what I was doing.

    If you are going to make accusations, you need to back them up. If I am the things he says then he was helpful. Otherwise...

    I'm thankful for the earlier posters, not for that guy.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 05:39 AM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Notmyrealuser View Post
    Helping now is making assumptions (That are very obviously wrong and can be proving wrong)? Could've fooled me. I never made the topic to show entitlement or anything. Once again, what am I entitled too?

    If I am so much wiser then everyone, why would I even be posting this? Why would I have posted 31 years of private information? You would be hard pressed to find someone else who would randomly tell you what they did TODAY.

    And how does the guy know I haven't moved on simply because I 'relived them' when I spoke? Anytime someone speaks of their past they remember it, which was what I was doing.

    If you are going to make accusations, you need to back them up. If I am the things he says then he was helpful. Otherwise...

    I'm thankful for the earlier posters, not for that guy.



    You don't have to tell anyone about your past. You seem as though you're doing better. Everyone in this world has had some sort of
    Negativity in their lives and like you they have overcome.

    Have you ever stopped and looked at the wonderful things? You're very
    Smart and you are handsome. You have a fresh start, a do over, lots of people don't. Start with smiling more and joining in conversations.
    You will be surprised how many friends you will have if you don't carry your past like a rock around your neck.

    Slapshot was trying to help. Stop being so defensive.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 01:33 PM
    Curlyben
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