A simple check up may help, but doing things that you enjoy, and makes you happy does wonders.

Coping with rejection is something we all have to learn. Self confidence is the key to that.

You need more time, and a busier plan, that gets you busy building yourself, and teaching you to love yourself, more than you love her.

For you to like a man who is interested in you, then you need to see a value in him or you will reject him. (Same for men)

If you have an ex partner, you have left him or moved on because you no longer see a value in him. (Same for men).

So in both circumstances - What are the things that lose value and the things that gain value ?

What makes you want him as opposed to not wanting him?

Positive Value:

Negative Value:

Respect

The biggest thing, I believe.

I thinks its more about feelings, and seeing if you both connect on the working together on many levels, that nurtures those feeling so they can grow.

Respect, honesty, connection

Ditto to tali! I thinks its more about feelings, and seeing if you both connect on the working together on many levels, that nurtures those feeling so they can grow.

Positive - admiration
Negative - apathy

Puzzling Question ! I see women on a daily basis who are of attraction value to me based on their looks.

Ie: I find them physically desirable and therefore have an emotional / connection interest to go and talk to them. If I then find they have a good personality I am drawn to them even more possibly looking for a connection.

However the only women I receive similar responses from are unattractive women !

Good Looking Attractive women do not give me those value responses.
- Now I don't think of myself as unattractive - Just Average ! Good Humour fun to be around.. So I don't know why I am getting this response ?

Is it good looking women will only show interest in good looking guys ? Or am I missing something..

Your field is narrow, and needs to be broader in its scope. Sometimes being to superficial is not good, and also your approach could be bad.

What is unattractive... to you?

How do I attract the attention / desire of beautiful women ?

Walk up to then and say HI! If you are confident, smart and outgoing women will flock to you. If you are quiet, shy and cannot carry on a basic conversation without saying "um, ah, youknow" then people will see you for what you are.

#1. confidence

Confidence does help A LOT, but that's only the start and it may not always work. Honestly, if you want some gorgeus lady on your arm, you've got to at least somewhat look like you deserve it. Stay clean cut, decent style, that helps. Also, make her LAUGH! I think this kind of goes with confidence but a sense of humor will almost always attract a girls attention, from there it usually gets easier to talk to her and share things in common, get to know each other and stuff... from there, wing it, if it works out, great, if not, try again on someone else.
Hope that helped ;]

Confidence, intelligence, sincerity, cleansliness, and honesty.

But, if you are being superficial, only looking at the outward appearance the "beautiful women" and not paying attention to who they are on the inside, then you will need;

Vanity, money, a nice car, a nice house, a gorgeous body, a gorgeous face, no scrupules and no sincerity.

Just be yourself. :)

Become rich,

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Haha, that works too. :)

Just be a friend... while it is flattering to have guys drooling over you it can be a bit annoying. And if she thinks that all you want is sex she will almost always push away from you. Girls typically do not want a guy interested in only sex. Usually they want a guy who is interested in her, her best interest, and things like that. You need to actually listen to what she has to say and notice the little things in life. Don't try to be genuinely interested... be genuinely interested... she will be able to tell the difference. Although she will appreciate the effort either way. Good luck! Oh and ps... don't try to "wow" her or overdo it with material things. Often simplicity and quality matter more the quantity and granduar.

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God didn't make no ugly women, so just pick one you like.

If a woman is interested or attracted to you what signs will she give above being friendly ?

Wel the woman would normally show u some physical sign of attraction, such as touching u in a way for u to realise that this is more than a friend or want to be