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Please don't do that. I am guessing that won't a make a hill-of-beans difference and suspect there is something else going on here beyond simple naughtiness or willfulness.Quote:
Originally Posted by betty70
Why did the psychiatrist send you to a therapist (a master's level counselor, I am guessing)? Why didn't the psychiatrist take her on as a patient?
I was wondering about an underlying behavior disorder myself and would be looking for a second opinion.
What state do you live in?
You're considering jail for a 7 year old child?Quote:
Originally Posted by betty70
I really really really feel that the therapist she's seeing has put ideas into your head. I don't agree that a child of 7 can be diagnosed as a sociopath, and I know that no therapist is educated enough to even offer that diagnosis.
Either we're not getting the whole story, or you're just not prepared, or willing, to deal with a child with issues Stealing, yes, it's bad. When the school said they wouldn't punish her for it, what did you do? Did you set limits? Did you punish her for this behavior, or did you let it go because the school wouldn't deal with it? Has she actually gone to a psychiatrist for more than one session?
This all sounds like you just don't want to deal with it anymore, and sending her away to boot camp or jail, is the easy way out. Parenting isn't always easy. If what you're doing isn't working, you fight until you find something that does work. This is not an adult you're dealing with, this is a 7 year old child. If you find the right avenue, you should be able to change her behavior. If not, it's too soon to label her a sociopath, and send her away. She at least deserves the chance to change. Sending her to boot camp or jail, is sealing her fate, the fate one therapist (not even a doctor, not a psychiatrist, but a therapist) told you she has.
You chose to adopt this child, you need to fight to save this child, and not doom her to a destiny that right now, isn't set in stone.
Fight for her. She can't fight for herself, she's only 7!
I'm still waiting to hear about any additional school behavior. :(
Her fears of ordinary things like sand and water do sound like some of the sights and sounds that bother autistics, and she may be over stimulated by every sight, sound, and movement around her.
Are you near a teaching hospital with a good psych and neurology dept?
I agree that the therapist sounds incompetent.
Im not sure what you mean at the before your question. One of my foster children had been going to a psychiatrist for a while. At one point I had discussed with her about my 7 year old. I was told by her that the behaviors my 7 years old was expressing was not of a normal child and that it needed to be put to a stop of it will get worst. Also that she should come in to get an evaluation, so I made an appointment. When that day came another psychiatrist meet with her and said to me she had no problem that she was just copying other children behaviors and that some children in school might be bulling her. That she should see a therapist.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Which state do you live in?Quote:
Originally Posted by betty70
I'm a therapist, a counselor, whose specialty is children. During the past twenty years, autism has been a special interest of mine. Your daughter shows signs that this could be what is going on with her. That's not a diagnosis by any means, but it is something I really urge you to consider and explore.
Her grades are good, she respectful to any adult. She has no friends not in school or girl scouts, besides her taking those things nothing else. I do hate to say that she was being bullied in kindergarten to the point she had found out that I was not her biological mom. When school ended was when she had told me, so I was unable stop it when it was happening. This year she was able to tell the principal, and it was put to a stop that I know of, or what she tells me.Quote:
Originally Posted by teacherjenn4
Bergen county N.J>Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Thank you. You're in a very populated area. It would be good to find a psychologist who specializes in children and behavior problems and even in autism. Your daughter could be acting out in frustration about something. Be a good detective and find out what is going on in her head and what is not working for her.Quote:
Originally Posted by betty70
Thank you! I never considered that possibility,I will be looking into that. Can drugs being taken though pregnancy cause autism.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
I will thanks!Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
They are still looking for the causes of autism. It could be hereditary (as in my husband's and son's case) or even from the environment. I haven't heard that drugs during pregnancy would cause it, but we do know something happens somewhere during a child's development, either before or after birth. Autism covers a huge spectrum of behaviors. Here is a long list of possibilities (my husband has some, my son has different ones from my husband--but both are very smart!) --Quote:
Originally Posted by betty70
Martha Kate Downey - List of Characteristics
Again, we/I can't diagnose your daughter, but it certain is worth a look at autism. It would explain her "sociopathic" behavior as she acts out in frustration.
It's interesting to hear that she does well in school and has no real behavior problems. I've had many autistic students, along with emotionally disturbed, and they exhibited behaviors in class and on the playground. Does she say she has no friends, or has that been observed by her teacher? Plenty of my students say the same thing, yet I watch them play with children at each recess.Quote:
Originally Posted by betty70
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