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Originally Posted by Tracyright

well may think i really got troubles - but am always keeping 1 or 2 glasses under my bed,when i find it difficult to go to the toilet and pee, especially at night...hun i think its due to a fright....

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I am direct and to the point - yes, someone who is afraid to go to the toilet at night and pees in glasses which she keeps under the bed has issues.

Maybe you have reason to be afraid, maybe you don't - but I do see a problem here.

She is not drinking it who told you she is Only what I said is that she keeped it under the bed in a plastic container and she is gothik

What fright you think is that that could cosed it I don't understand this

Have you talked to her about it? If so, what did she tell you?

She is actuly good in school I never have a problem with that she do fine with homework to

What is dabbing her self I don't know what that means tell me more about this please

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what is dabbing her self I dont know what that means tell me more about this please

I used the word "dabbling" which means "trying out." Is she doing anything that sounds more serious than being goth? Did you read links that I had posted?

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Originally Posted by J_9

Have you talked to her about it? If so, what did she tell you?

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I still don't know why you won't answer this question. It' has been asked several times.

Because the child is in charge.

mstatjana does not find this helpful : because saying something that i did never had said is not right

You gave me a reddie and I don't even understand your thinking. However, why do YOU think she is saving her urine under the bed? I said drinking urine is part of the goth culture. Apparently you think it's something else - what would that be?

Or do you disagree with my statement that you are the mother, she is the child, you have no control and for whatever reason won't even ASK her why she's collecting her urine.

Or do you disagree with the statement that you have refused to answer direct questions and keep going around in a circle?

Oh, by the way, did you read the rules before you began posting? If so, you didn't understand them.

I understand there is a market for "clean" urine .

The people on probation and parole find ways to sneak it in and submit it for their drug testing.
Maybe she is starting a business.

(Have to spread some more before I can give it to martinizing2 again) - but yes, that's the first thing I thought of too - maybe she is giving (selling?) her urine to some of her goth buddys...

There's a difference between "recent" urine and "old" urine. I doubt that someone who is selling urine would keep it under her bed but, again, nothing much surprises me any longer.

A lab test will tell how old the urine is as well as if it's male or female.

I think the daughter has something else going on.

Of course, OP hasn't been back so...

True - a lab test would definitely show what you mentioned, but I wonder how sensitive the home drug tests are - also, us knowing that the urine is obviously not fresh doesn't mean that the kids know that we would know that - they may still try to pull off the old 'brought some purchased urine with me' trick...