[Wendy.]

HauntingHelper...
Them pictures were not of any bites, I didn't take a picture of the bite mark, that it the scratch on my wrist which I woke with and just a mark I found on my back which I found unusual.
What you say about the bite not breaking the skin makes load son sense now as when I had the bight mark on my leg the bite to me, looked like it was almost under the skin, the skin was not broken but it had that kind of mark which indicated it was under the skin now that I think about it. At the time I never thought of it.

And with Char32 as we are best friends I go round her house a lot and she comes round mine a lot, quite recently when I slept round her house strange things began to happen, her dog would concentrate on one spot and bark and bark. This really creeped us out so we went out, taking her dog with us.
But anywhere I go it feels like it follows me. Well not everywhere but most places! Only on the odd occation it don't feel like its not with me, it usually feels like its with me all the time.
Back to when I was at Charlottes, we wenr back to hers as our phone batterys were low and it was getting dark, so we went back to charge our phones, but as we were upstairs I was in the bathroom and she was in her mums room,with her dog and her dog began to just bark and bark like mad, looking at one spot behind charlotte. We were both very freaked by this so we went out again.
And again our batterys were low and it was darker now, so we returned to her home and as soon as I entered her house a towel which was on the banister on the stairs fell, we both agreed before we entered her house not to make a big deal out of anything and try to relax. So we tried to look past this sat down in the lounge. Watching TV, music on and charging our phones. Then a bottle but fell over so we were like yeah we're going out! So again we left the house with her dog, but returned shortly once her sister was home.

When I'm at school strange things do seem to happen, they have since I started in year.7 but I just used to say the school is haunted! In a jokey way, because if I was walking around the school a door would randomally fly open. It would make me jump and creep me out abit but I was OK soon after.
Also a few weeks ago I was sitting in English and the door just flew open. Baring in mind these doors are fire doors.

So yeah, it feels like what ever this thing is, does follow me to different places and it feels like its with me most of the time. Sometimes the presence of it feels soooo strong I will think someone is standing next to me. For example one night I was in bed and I knew my dad was upstairs so I was expecting him to come and say goodnight, and it felt as if he was rigth above me, almost leaning over me. But when I turned round no one was there so I called to see if he had just come in my room but he replyed "no! I'm in the bath room".

Also I didn't know it was common for young females to have trouble like this. Do you think it is possible to stop this, or do something? And do you know any of the outcomes for those who have had the same sort of trouble as me?? I would be very grateful if you cudl give me any information or advise on what could be in store for me..?

Also I know that my mum done the ouija board when she was 16 with friends. And my brother done it when he was aroudn the age of 8. Neither were done in this current home, but when my brother done it we lived here. His friends mum used to do all that kind of stuff, and he didn't know what it was, so when my mum found out she was furious but anyway... Do you think this might have something to do with what's happening to me?

[Wendy.]

martinizing2 & HauntingHelper...
Could you please tell me where I could get a webcam from?
And I'm going to make all the choices in what happens to try sort this out, and my family don't beelive me, they just think its because I have watched scary films and stuff.

Also I know a 'vicar' he lives relativily near me. Do you think if he came and blessed the house, or gave me any 'religious items' such as crosses etc. to hang in my room and maybe around the house too. Do you think this might help to ware off any bad spirirts in my house? Or do you think it may worsen it, as they don't like religious items, or good things in the house, like any vibes of god right ? So it might make the haunting worse?
But to be honest I have no idea what I'm talking about so can you give me the best advise and information please, thank you!

[martinizing2]

Wendy, this is going to be a long and serious "talk" . But at this point I want you to understand all the possibilities.
Ready?

Webcams are available at any large department store or electronics dealer. They are fairly simple to set up and use also.

After reading your latest posts it seems that you have had a lot of things going on around you for quite some time.
I am wondering about how with all the activity you speak of that nobody in your family has been witness to any of the things going on. Although I realize that some people refuse to see what they don't want to see.

You seem to think that something follows you. This is an example of what many think happens to teenagers especially females.
At ages 11 through 18 as you mature and grow some believe there is a lot of energy given off that attracts this kind of activity and it feeds off the energy produced by teens.

As for some of the things you related I am thinking that you are scared at times because you believe paranormal events are taking place around you. This frame of mind can cause you to overreact and your brain will even "fill in details" of things that only you see because it is your brain putting in data that fulfills what you expect to see or happen.

I am not saying it doesn't happen or that I don't believe you because I do believe you . But things may not be as dramatic as you perceive them.

A dog barking at a "spot" can be frightening , but it is so because it is thought that animals can detect things we cannot. And that leads one to associate the dogs action with something that may be paranormal, which it may be. Or it may be a dog barking at an insect we can't see or don't even look for because the decision was made instantly that it was a ghost or spirit .

A towel falling off something as you walk in may seem unusual , but when you open the door air currants will move through the room and the towel may have been ready to fall and the air "pushed" it enough to make it fall. Or the vibrations of you walking could have caused it also , but because of your situation you get frightened and don't think of alternative answers.

The same can be said of a bottle falling over. Many things could cause it but only one answer is considered because of the things that you experienced.
Do you see that you need to look further into probable causes and don't have the "paranormal" mind set.

The straight honest truth as I believe it to be on this subject is this, (it will sound scary in parts but you want the truth) More than likely there are explanations for many of things you have experienced.
More than 90% of reported paranormal events get explained.
A small percentage will be questionable and 3 to 5 percent are paranormal events that cannot be explained.

With what seems to be a spirit or ghost in a house or around a certain person may be just what it is said to be. Spirits or ghosts or entities are one type of experience. I don't believe anyone can say and be 100% sure of what they are or where they come from.
For the most part they cause no real threat except fear , which can be bad enough just by itself.

These types are very often stopped or quieted by the house being blessed , or a psychic ( a real one and they are rare) telling it how to leave or helping in some manner.
I suspect that there is a possibility this is what may be happening if any paranormal events are around you.

The other possibility has the potential to be a life changing and terrifying thing. The only reason I am going to say anything about it is that I think you need to be aware of what is out there and can be "invited" into your life by things like Ouija Boards, and people who will try to cast spells or perform rituals to draw them in or try to cast them out of a home or persons life.

And people like yourself who have things happen will accidentally give the "invitation" that these things require while they seek answers to what is happening to them.
Fake psychics and fortune tellers and dumb a$$ investigators can cause the "invitation" and not know it.

These are demons. And they do exist. I have seen this for myself and it is undeniable.
The bible tells us they are the angels that went against Gods will and were cast out of heaven.
And now their only purpose is to lure souls away from the Lord and do evil to torment humans.

Many times a demonic haunting is recognized and the demon is cast out by a man of God who has faith in God and believes so strongly in Him , he casts the demon out.
The Lord said that any who believe in Him and follow his teachings can do this and be protected by their beliefs like wearing "Gods Armor"

But a demonic haunting or possession is terrifying. And can be dangerous. This is why you need to know what you are dealing with and why we should investigate all we can to be sure we don't "cause" a demonic event which is as serious as anything you will ever see.

An example is the movie The Exorcist. It is a terrifying movie . Even more terrifying is the fact it is based on a true story that is well documented and witnessed by many people including Doctors, Priests, police , authors and others.

It took months of the priests exorcising the demon that had taken over this boys body. (in the movie the main character who gets possessed is a girl) and people witnessed the bed levitating in midair , the boy speaking in a voice that was unhuman and boomingly deep .
He spoke languages the boy could not have known and told people things about their lives only they knew.

He would get so strong it took three or four grown men to hold him down while the priests tried to exorcise (cast out) the demon.

Many other things took place that are too terrible to talk about , but when the demon was finally cast out it left with such force that it cracked the ceiling of the hospital the boy was put in to protect him and those around him from the power the demon had.

All of this is witnessed and documented in many writings . The one I am most familiar with is a book called The Demonologist by Ed Warren with his wife Elaine who spent their lives helping people that had encounters with demons. Ed died some years ago but Elaine still travels the world offering her help as a true psychic and demonologist.

I have gone to a fairly great length here to try and let you know this is not a game and can be deadly serious.

Many people do not believe demons are real and people like myself who believe they do are crazy bible freaks that really don't know anything.
Maybe some are. But I can tell you truthfully I have seen people possessed by demons and seen the power they wield and it is awesome and terrible.

And to be toying around or playing with anything that might cause them to become attached to , or let into someone's life is something so horrible you cannot imagine it.

And this is partially why I spend my time doing what I can to help this not to happen and to advise anyone that is playing around with the paranormal that they are risking something they have no idea of what can happen.

So my agenda is to inform , identify, and refer to a solution as quickly as we can be sure of what is being dealt with , if anything.
Knowledge is power and your safety net.

I suggest that if you can arrange for the vicar to bless your house and yourself , you should do that.

Let me know what you decide please.

[Wendy.]

Wooow! That was a lot of writing! But thank you,that was a lot of useful information there for me.
I have explored posibilites of what may be causing these things to happen, I have been working of theories for months, then I was reseearching and found this website, then I asked the question about what's going on in my house, well with me. Mainly because I have ran out of options, and thought that this could help me get some real answers.

As you already know I have had experiances from a very young age, which have then flollowed through to now.
And I have lived in a few different houses since it started when I was about 3, so it seems to be following me, or every house I live in seem to have the same problems? :L

And I totally get what your saying about being able to explain what's happening to me, well in my house. But I have tried to explain all the things which have happened as it happens, and I keep going over and over these things to explain them in a non pararnormal way. But I am finding it more and more difficult to be able to explain what's happening in my house.
It all might be nothing to do with demons, it might just be a ghost as my mum has had experiances throughout her life also, and has seen ghosts, but not how I see things, when she sees them she sees them as a person and thinks someone is there but theire not. When I see them it's a dark shadow, as I have already explained briefly. When I was little and first started having the experiances, like seeing shadows and stuff, when I would see them, I would see them for quite a long time, where as now when I see shaddows they don't stay there long, sometimes on rare occations they stay a little longer than other times, but most of the time if I see it, they disappear or move relativily fast.

I think I will get a vicar to come and bless my house. I am worried in a way incasethe situation worsens but what have I got to lose?

[martinizing2]

If it did get worse that would be an indication of what needs to be done next, there are always options regarding what to do next.

Cross that bridge if it comes up,

And what you have to lose is the problem you are concerned with.

I am confidant that the vicars blessing will be at least a move that will lessen your fear and give some confidence that this will soon be over and you can be comfortable in your own home.
And your friends will want to stay over again.

Keep updating ,:D and we'll keep with the feedback .
If necessary.;)

[charlene32]

All her storys and bite marks really and the noises in her house

[Wendy.]

Okaaay thank you!
I am going to talk to the vicar who is a family friend and ask himn to bless me and my house, so like you said I can once again, hopefully feel more comfortable when I'm in my home, if that's alone or with company.

I am also going to get a cross to have in my room, as it might make me feel like I'm being protected when I sleep.

Also I thought I might go down the faily tree and talk to different family members to see if they know of any paranormal activity in any of my other family.
And yeah will do don't worry! :)
Thanks again.
I will keep updating on the situation.

[martinizing2]

You have a good plan going on.

I think that talking to the other family members is a really good idea.

I like it that the vicar is a friend of the family, He will already
Know some of your backround and I believe that will help a lot.

Having a cross in your room may be a good reminder that you are always being
Watched over by the greatest power in the universe.
Keep that thought with you.

Keep up the good work, You are going about this in mature thoughtful manner.
I am impressed Wendy, well done.

[hauntinghelper]

In response to your skull item... the best way to get rid of it... is to get rid of it. You don't have to do some stupid ritual to get rid of it. Just throw it away. Having read over the last several posts I am fairly comfortable saying that this thing has a family history. You're on the right track with the vicar... however if we look closely, in a biblical sense, as to how spiritual power was dealt with, you'll see it's dealt with in AUTHORITY. Where Jesus or any of his followers dealt with demonic power, it's wasn't asked to leave, it wasn't prayed about, it was COMMANDED to leave. Demons were and still are found in church, so let's take this into consideration when hanging a cross in your room. It's probably not going to scare anything off. It's not a magical emblem that will just vanish evil... it needs to be dealt with directly. Martini is right, demon power is no joke... it is vastly beyond anything mankind can deal with... hence the power and authority of God working through us needed to defeat it. I'm trying to say this tastefully, but just because you hang a cross in your room... does not mean God is standing guard over you. I am not trying to scare you... but I am being realistic. Mankind is, by default, in a fallen state with God... hence the need for salvation through Jesus Christ. We have a freewill, meaning God will not force himself into our lives. He is very aware of your situation... but He's only going to intervene when fully invited and allowed to work on HIS terms. I just don't want to give you a sense of false trust and hope. To be one who can take refuge in God, to be watched over and blessed, to walk in the inheritance that is in Jesus Christ(where authority and blessing are)... means to be one who has actively invited Him into your heart and dealt with repentance of a life without Him. Does that make any sense to you? To clarify further, we cannot just go about our life with no worries thinking God is always for us and watching over us. That is the exact opposite of what is taught in His revealed word. There is a way out of your situation... and every spiritual hold can be broken... but it is ONLY done on GOD'S terms, not ours. Every form of witchcraft, necromancy, sorcery, divination, spiritism and dealings with the spiritual world are VERY SPECIFICALLY spoken against by God. He likens it to prostituting ourselves to demons and calls it an abomination. That skull item falls under this type of spiritual perversion. That lady who gave it to your family, too, falls under that category. God does NOT joke around when it comes to dealing with spiritual matters apart from Him directly. I'm only telling you all of this to be very careful where your help comes from.

[Wendy.]

Thank You Martinizing. I am doing everything I can to think of to find out if my family has had a history with this kind of activity which is currently happening to me, and maybe soon the rest of my fmaily living in this home, with me.
I am happy you think it's a good plan, it makes me more confident about doing it, and going ahead with everything I have planned, so thank-you it has been a rea confidence boost for me mentally.

HauntingHelper, your information has again been a great help to me. I am going to talk ot my brother seriously about the skull we were given (as it's his) and ask him if I can get rid of it.
Also the information you have provided about god and his powers etc, have helped me in some ways, I'm also slightly confussed but I get what you are saying.
I take everything you both say to me, and tell me on board and it does clear things up in my head. I guess you could say it makes me think more clearly.

Also, you might of told me this somewhere in our conversation, but could there be a reason it has came into my house, and into my life? Could it be something to do with family past? Or could it just be purely random that it has came into my home, and my life? As I know demons are on this planet to cause harm for their own emusement, right?
Many thanks again.

[martinizing2]

Also, you might of told me this somewhere in our conversation, but could there be a reason it has came into my house, and into my life? Could it be somthing to do with family past? Or could it just be purely random that it has came into my home, and my life? As I know demons are on this planet to cause harm for their own emusement, right?
Many thanks again.

I don't think anybody can give you a reason with any kind of certainty .

And even if they could it wouldn't matter. If demons are involved the only thing that matters is getting rid of them.

They must have an invitation to be in someone's life , and this can be in a multitude of ways.
Some examples ;

Many can be traced to the use of Ouija boards being mass marketed as a game , and available in department stores and toy stores.

People that hold séances that know nothing about them except what they see on T V and in movies.

People that try to be witches and warlocks and cast spells open themselves up even though they are only doing it for fun and attention.

Things such as these are best avoided and serve no real purpose or benefit anyway.

You're doing great, and I really appreciate the updates and hearing that we have helped in some way.
That makes my day. Thanks

[hauntinghelper]

That's exactly the point... I do believe it has something to do with your family, as there seems to be a history with it... but they can in a way be random, still invited in without the person knowing it... but I don't think that is the case with you. I believe it is something in your family. Something in the past may have invited it/them in... like Martini said, usually something to do with the occult... but it doesn't have to continue with you. Any person who receives the Lord Jesus Christ into their life is a new creation... that thing can end with you if you choose. While they have the legal grounds to be in your family for whatever reason... that stops the second someone chooses to reconcile their life with God.

I'm glad you found my answer helpful previously... however I don't want confusion to remain. What specifically were you confused about?

Has their been any luck on the video camera?

[Wendy.]

Martini... Oh right, that makes sense, what you said about the Oujia boards might have something to do with it, as both my muma and brother have done it, like I have said previously. Also the witch thing you mentioned has made me think of Holly (the woman who gave my family the skull). My mum told me her parents were white witches. This may have nothing to do with what's happening but is it a possibility ?

Also HauntingHelper... I too think it's soemthing to do with my family, I also think therfe is a history with it along the lines, even if it is many many years ago, I think if I done abit of family research I might find a connection.
I thin ksomething along my family lines may have triggered this, it may be random like you said it could be, but I think someone in my family, or something what has happened has triggered this.

I have a question... What is the occult ?

And the whole thing about God and his power confusses me in a few ways. I'm not sure exactly what bits but it seems to confuse me slightly. Well maybe not confuse but I tend to find it hard to understand.

The camera, I was going to start recording a few days ago, and I did but the memory on my camera has run out. So I am going to find the USB cord and put the videos onto my laptop then delete them off the camera so I can record each night and during the day without memory issues.
But if you know something which may have a memory, as an alternate to my video camera?

Also its OK martini, I appreatiate the help you are providing for me :)
Again, thanks. :P

[martinizing2]

I have a question....What is the occult ?


But if you know something which may have a memory, as an alternate to my video camera ??

Occult literally means "hidden".:eek:

Some examples would be Ouija boards, witchcraft, fortune telling, astrology .
It also is used to refer to Ungodly or unholy sometimes.


If you can hook up your camera to your lap top , that will work as long as you have room on your hard drive.
And of course you can delete all the stuff day by day and only keep anything relevant .
That way you won't use up a lot of room on your HDD.

Or you could a thumb drive (the little ones that plug into a usb) they are inexpensive and have very large capacities available.:D

[hauntinghelper]

So, going back to the Occult... the practice of such is usually in search of "hidden" truths or knowledge... which is where every form of witchcraft and spiritism falls under. Again, it doesn't mean that this are going to be obviously evil and wicked people... just a people that practice wicked and evil things in the sight of God.

With this family history situation... it only takes one person to invite a demon in... and that thing can really stick around and manifest to different people throughout generations. Demons really view people as their house, their apparatus, their tool... if that makes sense. We are looked at as their property and that they have a right to us. If one person in the past practices some form of witchcraft, for instance, that spirit of witchcraft can work it's way through different family members... whether they invite them or not. This can be a hard truth to understand but it is very true nonetheless. You've mentioned experiences that your brother and mom have had... does it seem to go back further? It very well could be something your mom brought in... or beyond her... that will take some research on your part. England is very well known for these practices... it has a deep spiritual history, good and bad.

[Wendy.]

Okay, thanks. I now know what Occuly is, which is helpful.
I found my camera has loads of memory left, I mean like loads. But the problem is, is that is only records for about 4:30mins which is a pain. But 4hours is better than nothing.

Also hauntinghelper, what do you mean by "With this family history situation"?
I had an argument with my mum and dad last night. It was about this, well the demon thing. It really worries me, the thought of what it might do, and is doing. It worries me because no body believes me, well my family don't. It might sound silly, but it feels like what ever this is, is making me fall out with my family, it probably isn't, alothough to me it feels like it is. Like its trying to make me fall out with my close fmaily to make me more vunurable.

Also I found out my mum done the Ouija Board a lot with her friends, when she was young. I think that may of invited it into her life, which has brought it into my life, well my families life.
Although I think my mum might of, I don't think it was only this, I think it may go back further. So for me, I have research to do. I'm going to talk ot my gran and other family members to see if there is any history they know of.
I think it deefintly has something to do with my family, and I think Holly (the woman who gave me that skull) may have something to do with it. Even if just triggerd the activity.

If I'm honest I am scared of what might happen to me, and what is going on. I think it worries me because I know so much about demons, and what they are capable of. So I am well aware of what these things can do, and it frightens me, to even imagine its in my home, in my life and is 'haunting' me.
Sorry I'm going on abit. I will stop now.

Thank you both again very much for the information you have provided. Its all been such a help to me.

[hauntinghelper]

Sorry if that comment about the "family situation" was unclear. I was simply referring to the apparent generational connection this spirit might have... nothing else meant to be implied.

You might be right, it very well could be trying to cause some turmoil in the home... demons try and dig up trouble... that is really all they are about. But, this type of arguing can also be expected between family members in this situation... you have to admit it can be hard to swallow for some people... especially if they themselves have never had an experience. This happened in my own home when I was younger. You being the most aware of it's presence should try and keep a cool head and if you feel the anger rising in yourself or anyone else, just try and walk away without feeding it. Of course the last thing anyone on here wants to do is cause a family problem.

Have you started keeping a journal about the experiences and times they occur? This type of documentation can be helpful to just about anyone involved.

[Wendy.]

Oh right that's OK, I thought you meant that, was just making sure.

Right, yeah I am going to keep cool. My dad don't believe in ghosts and stuff, so he won't ever believe me unless I have evedence to shwo him, which is where the camera will come in handy.
Also do you on martini know if I buy a webcam, do you know if fit will be able to record? Because then I can have my camera watching my room, like my door and rest of my room, then the webcam watching me.

And yeah, I have a book/diary so I can write about everything what happens to me, as I have only just started it I can't be accurate on times or dates for the stuff what's happened in the past but I can still write about what's happened, in as much detail as possible.

[hauntinghelper]

For now it sounds like you have a pretty good plan and truthfully it's about all you can do without trying to communicate with it... which is something you should NOT do.

I know you can record with webcams, I'm sure it's just a matter of the software you are using. That I am not that well versed in.

[Wendy.]

Okay thank-you, I will not try contact it. What ways can you ocntact it by? Just so I know so I don't do it thinking it won't contact it.

And ahhh okay, I will have a look at webcams, and do abit of finding out with the recording of webcams.

Thanks again, been a great help.