And it's OK to "shop around". You need to find one your are comfortable with. I personally recommend the Full Gospel churches. Pastors are becoming more and more aware of paranormal situations... so you might even be able to find one that has dealt with this before.

I saw one of my good friends yesterday and first time I mention about what my cat did and show her the pictures, she told me she had a dream about my spirit/ghost. She didn't see it but she said it was someone that was really close to me. The only person that was that close to me that past away was my grandmother and that was almost 9 years ago. My grandmother past away the day after she watch two of my kids and my middle child was two months old too.

Its up to you to choose who you listen to... I can only offer advice and suggestions.

My neighbor moved and gave me a lot of her deceased grandmothers things one a beautiful dresser for my bedroom, after some days I began to smell a perfume in my room that would come and go I rarely wear perfume and what I smelled wasn't mine I was happy that she chose to be here then one night after a couple of months of this we had people here and I was telling a friend of the family that I felt like I had a spirit in my room so we went to my room after the conversation there we walked out of the room and went to another part of the house when every one left my 11 yr old son and I were walking towards my room and I noticed the bedroom door was closed I never close the door and the guest that was with us and my son when we went in the bedroom walked out before me as we walked closer to the room the door knob turned and the door slowly opened like we were being let in as of that night the perfume is gone I think she left! I kind of liked having her there!