Keep in mind that high school is not like the adult world, it is a "Lord of the Flies" kind of world where there is a lot of immaturity, cliques where the "in crowd", mainly jocks and preppies think they are better than everyone else. I was also bitter about girls in high school because most of them would rather date the arrogant jock or tattooed troublemaker instead of the smart nice guys. Remember that once you finish school and enter the real world, you will meet lots of mature, kind people and I think it will improve your attitude not only towards women but life in general. Good luck.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I think the person you don't like is yourself. Maybe you think girls have expectations you don't feel you can live up to, so you transfer your hate to them. You blame them for your feeling bad about yourself.
It may do you some good to talk to a professional. You are too young to have such feeling towards women and yourself.
How old are you?

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I agree. Way to young for these feelings. There will be a lifetime of hurt ahead of you, don't dwell on it now. But with that said, there will be a lifetime of happiness, laughter, love, confusion, loneliness, sadness, anger... its called the game of life. You live it. You can either learn from it or cave in to it.

Very true indeed sun

The truth is that women are human being just like you, flawed your always going to find something wrong with human beings. The real question is are you disgusted with them or with yourself? Are you really any better, think about it for a minute. Who needs to change them or you? Sometimes people will take the easy route and say "they need to change" but in truth change needs to start with you. I say this cause I grew up with 3 women no Dad for about 17yrs, then just 2 females for another 3yrs. It always felt like it was me versus them, but in fact I was just fighting my own self loathing and hate. God has really changed me in ways I couldn't had done on my own. Though I still struggle with it, it's steadily getting better. Don't know if that answers your question.

I understand where you're coming from. I'm an 18-year-old GIRL and I hate women so much. I don't really see them as inferior, I just see them as being stupid whores - but I think men are just as stupid and loose, though I tend to project my hatred more onto women. I know this is technically someone else's question, but I really need help too. I get so unbelievable angry at other girls, especially when they're being teases and then ***** and moan when they get raped. And I know that's horrible - I wish I could stop thinking like that. I actually bought a book about feminism, and all it did was confirm the fact that women are sluts who allow themselves to be demeaned and are too stupid to think for themselves (in my opinion)

I completely agree with the question, and actually came to this page in order to seek the same answer. I can see none of these comments helped, they don't even understand the feeling completely(or close).I would help you if I knew how to cope with this myself, but yes I do see where your coming from. I hope that one guy is right about them changing as they grow up. Ive thought that way about it to and it seems that would be the only way or I would grow old alone by choice. How is homegirl50 a dating and teen expert. That last comment was the biggest misfire I've ever seen. Are you really an expert or did you just put that. At first I was like is this person serious next I laughed, then I said omg it says this person is an expert on these matters to lmao.

Good to see all answers from women... Its perfectly fine to hate women... And it is not offensive to hate women, but women will claim it is completely unreasonable to hate women... A women could hate spiders or snakes, does that mean it is wrong? It just means at every opportunity she would avoid them...

You can hate women and not be obvious about it, keep yourself learning and becoming a more educated and creative man that you were meant to be. As far as relationships with women, unfortunately chivalry is now considered intimidation and abuse. If you marry and have children, there is a greater than 60% chance you will divorce... If that happens, you will be stripped of all your financial assets, declared a unfit father, and considered potentially violent even though there is no previous history.

Over the past 20 years we have seen mens efforts in society slowly decay to where men are portrayed as stupid and ignorant on TV commercials. On the news we see a men who act out violence on women, hence all men are considered potential Psychopath. We also see the rising empowerment of women to a point where they want to be treated equally to men, but yet do not feel they have to treat men with the same equality...

Take a moment to really watch how women behave in a group. Most of their conversations are about how other females are inferior to them. Even when they are friends they will still stab each other in the back, and for any number of reasons. Look at how they dress when they go out, and the comments they say behind each others back.

Women now blatantly claim they are better than men in just about every capacity... They have gone from revolution to decadence and demand that men serve their needs without question or fail...

For men, it is best to pursue their ambitions without a women to take it away... And for $200 to$300 once or twice a month you can purchase a prostitute to service your personal needs, which is much cheaper than going through a divorce...

In high school I don't know why girls act like that. I had a best friend in the years leading up to high school, she was extrodinarily pretty, smart, funny, kind, understanding, and was there for me every time I had problems and as if over night she changed. The day high school started she stopped talking to me completley. Didn't even acknowledge my existence, and just when my depression was wearing off from that she talks to me one time, and it sent me back tp the old days, there was a moment, then her friends showed up and she left me, full of hope, only to crash again after not communicating with her for even longer. And every two months or so she talks to me, gives me one of her old smiles, and its awefull. Hope is the deadliest weapon.
My point is people change, and eventually even mean people become rashonal again, think about others, some more than others obviously, but I know one day, when I nolonger know her, shel have a family like we always talked about and shel be a nice women again. Sorry for the long sad anecdote, I'm about to start crying so il leave you to figure it out.

The way you feel is justified. I too have felt that way and still feel that way... but there was one major turning point, through the fog of hate in my head, I realized that a small percentage of women are not that bad, almost on the brink of being acceptable. Don't worry you are not going to "turn" gay. Either you are or you aren't. I mean, yes men do some messed up things, but women are completely selfish and will do anything to help themselves. You cannot blame them though. They are weak, and inferior in all aspects of life. Women want to fight for equality, while at the same time expect them to be treated differently. They want to be equal with men, but don't want to pay the bills, do the hard stuff (whether it be work or at home) and want to be treated like royalty. Also if it wasn't for men, 98.9% of the inventions, advancement in technology, we are the creators of buildings, cars, and majority of the medical advancements. Women cause more problems than they fix. It is scientifically proven that women produce 1/3 less serotonin then men, which in turn makes women more depressed and angry. Hell even women don't like the presence of other women. When women are "best friends" with another woman, 99% of the time they stop talking to each other in less than a year or two. So to answer you question, the reason why you hate is a good thing. Keeps you from picking the wrong girl. And good luck in finding that special girl cause brother they are very very very hard to find.

I am a 24 year old male, have the same feelings as you. In fact I don't go to restaurants where women work because I think they will try to poison me. I just want to offer some proof of my allegations that women are dishonorable and sly, from this very thread. A woman in this thread, 88sunflower, posted "There will be a lifetime of hurt ahead of you." Who says stuff like this? Definitely not a man. Just because a young man has expressed some of his suspicions of women, and she can't defend herself or her gender with logic and reasoning, she attacks him at a deep emotional level, trying to make him feel bad for his own existence. Unfortunately I have a mother who is like that and who inflicts deep emotional wounds at every action that I take. It's why I've moved out of my mother's house. But it seems that it has left a scar on me that may never heal. So my advice is, although there's no easy solution to your problem, be sure to do anything possible to change your attitude quickly, or any woman you meet will try her best to make your life worse and worse until you die. In short, if you show you are emotionally vulnerable (like you have shown that you are prone to become resentful) women will take full advantage of it. Mastering women is mostly just mastering your emotions. And if you don't master them, they will mess up your life.