Husband's boss is his ex...
Ok, guys... here's my situation.
We got married last year (yay, us!) and have a perfect marriage (in that it is imperfect, messy, full of love, sweet, ups and downs, best friendship, etc. etc.). But I'm a little bothered about the fact that my husband's boss (his ex) still calls him pet names and continues to keep their "closeness" alive.
It's little things that bother me: he has told me that he hates this certain pet name - she is the only one that calls him that. When I asked him why, he responds with, "Well, we have a history and she just does it." To which I respond, "But you're with me now, we're a family, she shouldn't cross that line."
I don't understand why it's OK... maybe I'm just being jealous? He doesn't see the problem with it - for him, she is his past. She is a closed chapter, one that he will never reopen. I totally trust him and know that I have nothing to fear. We're very strong in our relationship and faith; I know that she really is barking up the wrong tree.
But why does it bother me? The fact that she is his boss just... blah.
I'm being a jealous wife, aren't I?
I guess I'd just like to know how to handle the jealousy - that's my real question.
Comment on Altenweg's post
Alty,. mean? A definition of the term "mean" is needed. . I can't grasp Alty having much do do with "mean" as I understand it.