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You should have got a drum set, the best way to release anger within music is banging on dose drumsQuote:
Originally Posted by zooropa1985
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You should have got a drum set, the best way to release anger within music is banging on dose drumsQuote:
Originally Posted by zooropa1985
I have been playing for a few years now and I'll be the first to admit, it's a great way to just put everything out of your mind and get totally involved in something. It's a good release...Quote:
Originally Posted by zooropa1985
Just make sure you don't get discouraged... its very frustrating to start.
I bought a punching bag set.( heavy bag).. that seem to help. I also took 5 days off and went to NY city... funny thing. When I was there , I was so busy, and was at a parade with so many hotties that I really didn't think about her. Now I'm back... oh boy.. memories like crazylast night I was so down... but then watched the lakers play so that helped
I went out and bought a dirt bike. Always nice to pick up a new hobby for that extra time you suddenly have on your hands :)
Well I just found out what ended it. Another guy. I think I knew that but it's now been confirmed. I'm not shocked or surprisely even upset but maybe I'm still numb. It's funny because I usually know what to tell other people but now I'm just kind of living and thinking, you f-ing c word that I can't say.
Hey Chuff,
I'm sorry to hear that, it must be rough.
The best thing I can say now is that you absolutely know what you have to do now. Next time she tries to act friendly, talk as friends, whatever else she pulls you know that you can't play along. It was all fine and dandy before, but now you know you can't do it.
I know you are forced to have some contact with her, but I don't think she deserves your nicety anymore. I know it was nice for you to keep light, friendly contact with her, but you must know that can't continue..
Keep cool, try to relax and realize that nothing has really changed. The situation between the two of you is no different then it has been.
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Originally Posted by chuff
Chuff sorry to hear that. What I mean is that sorry to hear that she is an idiot. I won't pitty you as you know from all the awesome advice that you give and I know that you deserve better and obviously she was not the best for you. Numb I can understand that, Its like someone just thrown a bucket of ice on you in the middle of winter. But you know what, it's her loss because you are great! Your chuffing awesome!
And everyone chuffing love's your advice! I like that name by the way I get to replace it with bad words.. You get the chuffing point?
Remember JN is only a post away. Chuff Up it will get better!
WIth a lot of chuffing love
Jolie Noire
Lol.. are you smiling yet?
Yes you are correct. You know even just reading what you wrote I realize I made the mistake of even being friendly... by that I mean if she started the conversation I kept it going and now I have to just move it along. Even the other week when she was feeling down it was me being the nice guy that stopped and asked if she was okay and for all I know she had a fight with him and I let myself be the back up cheerleader. AHHHH, I can't believe I reverted to the nice guy again after getting all this through my head.Quote:
Originally Posted by bigbird213
Let that be the last straw... for your own sake
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Originally Posted by jolienoire
Jolie you are so correct. She is an idiot. The funny thing is I know I deserve better and knew it even while going out with her, but I'm happy to have someone else confirm it. Also, I live in Florida so bucket of ice in the winter isn't that bad. Although it's incredibly hot today, so I'ld be happy to have one now.
But to answer your question, I am smiling and it did make me feel better so I really appreciate what you've said. By the way, it's now official, I'm single with no attachment so if you want a Chuffing good time... Nevermind.
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Originally Posted by chuff
Are you chuffing on me? Lol
I just came back from Orlando a few weeks ago was there a whole week, beautiful weather relaxed at coco beach for a day.. Absolutely beautiful.. Will keep that in mind... chuff may take you up on that offer one day!
:D smiles
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Originally Posted by chuff
At least you no for sure that any more of the interaction you've been having won't do any good, so its time to ride the chuff train to pastures new. You'll be fine my friend. She is definitely an idiot!
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Originally Posted by jolienoire
ARE YOU CHUFFING ME?! NOW I'M REALLY DEPRESSED. I just moved from Lakeland, which is right outside of Orlando to St. Petersburg which is on the Gulf Coast. I can't believe you were here, and we didn't at least make a day of it. Oh well, I hope you do keep that in mind and come on back down, I'll show you around and I even promise to be a gentleman. ;)
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Originally Posted by jpm247
Chuff train Choo Choo!! You know what, the more I read this stuff the better my day is getting, you are right. I've got a concrete answer, no more guessing what happened and trying to figure out the strange way she's been acting. Also, I do want to confirm once again, she is an idiot. In fact, I don't believe I can say that enough.
I go every year for vacation.. Being a jersey gal.. The weather here is crazy, cold winters, cold springs, rainy summers, so unpredicatble... I intend to go back again sometime this year. Hopefully. I know you are a gentleman just one thing! Don't wear the clown outfit ;) lol.. just teasing..Quote:
Originally Posted by chuff
I agree JN, the weather here in Jersey is very unpredictable, it's out of hand ha ha.. 80 degrees one day then 60 the next!
Awwww man I feel like the odd one out living here in Ireland, though the sun is out and I'm roasting you guys would probably think it was freezing lol
Come up north a few hours to Connecticut. It's been nuts here. 50 in the AM, 85 in the afternoon. It really gets annoying :p Yesterday I think the high/low was 76 and 47 :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Romefalls19
I go to school in Jersey, so I know what you guys mean.
Hey where abouts in Jersey are you? That's cool we are close!
I live right around the Trenton area, how about you?
What school in jersey man?
I am in North NJ area, near bergen county, passaic county, essex.. about an hour away from the jersey shore, Point pleasant...
NJIT in Newark...Quote:
Originally Posted by Romefalls19
I don't really like it. There is nothing to do socially so I'm kind of stuck on campus. I was going to transfer, but I only have one more year so I'm toughing it out till then. Not to mention, I'm not a city person lol
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Originally Posted by bigbird213
I work in Livingston.. There are things to do in newark or even the surrounding towns there are a ton of food places, what about NJPAC center and You can take the path to NYC, you are close to Hoboken which is a ride away... How about the meadowlands fair that is coming up in about a month..
BTW NJIT is a great school Most of our engineers here at my company graduated from there!
We'll I'm not there all summer. I guess what I meant to say is there isn't my kind of things to do there. I don't know, I guess I don't get along well in cities. Although I have a fascination with exploring places that are abandoned or forgotten and "hauntings" etc, and I have found a few sites which have tons of stuff about that in the North Jersey area (weirdNJ sort of stuff).
I do like the program they have there... Thanks :)Quote:
Originally Posted by jolienoire
Oh, I forgot to mention. I have been waiting to check out a Devil's game at the new Prudential center, anyone been?
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Originally Posted by bigbird213
I see... well time to explore now that you are single, try new things.
Everyone should come to belfast, great bars, best Guinness in the world and the drinks are on me :)
I suppose your right. The "clubs" and other things of that nature which are generally found in cities aren't anything I've ever tried. Not sure how I would do, I'd feel awkward, but no better time then now.Quote:
Originally Posted by jolienoire
Sounds good to me! Although I don't drink Guinness.. but just to travel is a good idea!Quote:
Originally Posted by zooropa1985
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Originally Posted by bigbird213
Hey listen, I find things to do I don't know what type of music you like or what you are really into, but there are many places even in montclair nj, that are classy and upscale with live bands, and music great food, mature crowds, then you have the musuems that are awesomes, poetry(I love poetry) I perform, haven't done it lately.. there are just so many things you can do to enjoy yourself while you are single.
Thanks for the suggestions, I'll have to check into some of that stuff in the fall.
I won't wear the clown outfit if you WILL wear that outfit with the boots.Quote:
Originally Posted by jolienoire
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Originally Posted by chuff
Boots in FL, I would look insane!
chuff I was just wondering what with the Dark Knight coming out do you reckon people will mistake you for some kind of Joker wannabe?
Just a thought that's all :P
Fine then, just bring your smile.Quote:
Originally Posted by jolienoire
Chuff the suspense is killing me, What do you look like?
Yea chuff, what do you look like?
Come on now, I can't blow this by showing you what I look like. Then you'll never talk to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by jolienoire
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