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Originally Posted by Dare81

still can't get over it 9 years.thats one third of my whole life

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Look at my sister... she dated a guy for over 2 years and she found out that he was married and has a kid now.

She's 27.

Wow. That's messed up.How is she holding up?

But you got time on your side... it will help you heal and eventually she will have been a small part of your life...

Don't be so hard on yourself, its only been three days. For some of us, it was weeks or months before you notice any appreciable difference. It will happen, just take each day as it comes. Like you said, Day 3 of NC is almost over... Now shoot for 4 :)

Hang in there, when you need a boost, come on here and vent.. It helps

Pathetic... I started the NC this morning.. and I already broke it!! Can't delete his number.. I have it memorized... *uGh* I hate that I have the urge to call him... and I'm the only that let go!

Thanks.Time to go to bed for me.Hopefully tomorrow is better

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Originally Posted by Dare81

wow. thats messed up.How is she holding up?

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She's been single for a long time~
In fact, she doesn't care about it... but she teaches me a lot of lessons on relationships

DAY 4 NC=Felt pretty ty in the morning when I woke up. Felling better now, hopefully I won't be thinking about her today.I wonder why is it that when I wake up I always start thinking about her.

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DAY 4 NC=Felt pretty ty in the morning when i woke up. Felling better now, hopefully i wont be thinking about her today.I wonder why is it that when i wake up i always start thinking about her.

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Happens to everyone, it fades with time, but for the longest time mornings were the toughest for me. You were probably used to talking first thing in the morning.. maybe a good morning phone call or something like that? Try to have something planned for first thing in the morning... If you run, or work out, do that first thing in the morning... If you change your morning routine, it can help...

I have got to work on my masters thesis, this whole mess is so distracting, can't concentrate
I don't miss her or have the urge to call her, so why the hell am I so sad then?

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i have gotta work on my masters thesis, this whole mess is so distracting, can't concentrate
I dont miss her or have the urge to call her, so why the hell am i so sad then??

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Change isn't easy on a lot of people. The emotions your going to feel in the coming days and weeks are tough to describe and they will change like the winds. Everyone who has gone through it can attest to the fact that it truly is a rollercoaster. If you can ride out the lows, you will be fine.

DAY 4 NC=Could have been worse, but it was probably the worst day after day 1 of NC.But I keep this going. Lord have mercy have on me.Thanks for all your help guyz.

End of day 4 of NC=Feel like , I miss her I guess.

Of course you miss her... if you didn't you would be kidding yourself... think of how long she was part of your life, whether you do want to get back with her, the affect of this loss is going to make you sad regardless... It's human.

I'm going to be home alone for a weekend... 100% sure I'm not geetting laid =/

I'll probably order some shrooms and chew on that.. *sigh*

Relationships make me sick now D:

Day5 NC= I feel like , how long is it going to take me to get over her, I can't handle this anymore

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Day5 NC= I feel like , how long is it going to take me to get over her, i can't handle this anymore

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Keep yourself busy and put away everything that reminds you of her.

GET BUSY with rebuilding!

Feeling a lot better now, mornings are always the worst.Thanks a lot guyz, this forum keeps me going.

So how long does it take to get over a 9 year relationship?? Its going to take for ever, isn't it.:{