Oh goodness CBW, you hit it right on the head here. I couldn't agree more. Although, it seems easy to see the bad, there is so much good in our lives that we just really need to start being thankful for. Life is what WE make it. And if we look at it that way, we haven't anyone to blame but ourselve for being mean and hurtful. Maybe that is why I try my hardest not to be and can't ever get those nasty words to come out of my mouth. I feel them, they just don't ever get out. Which is fine with me I suppose I can handle that. THanks for the words, and yes they are truly wise!

LMAO I might have turnt 31 on Tuesday but you can all stop calling me wise now blimey I'm starting to feel like old man time giggle love you all xxxx ;)

Happy Happy Birthday, Start jumps out of yer cake and scares you half to death. LOL

Gawd I hope you have clothes on giggle

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LMAO i might have turnt 31 on tuesday but you can all stop calling me wise now blimey im starting to feel like old man time giggle love you all xxxx ;)

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LMAO there CBW - and a Happy birthday to you... sorry... I started the wise craze.. hee hee

Gosh, I remember my 30s... they were some of the best years... YOU ENJOY :)

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Hahaha! We'll all gather round and sing HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you in the nude! What a sight! :eek: Keep your blinds drawn ladies, LOL!

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NOPE!! (blushing) :eek:

Ok, enough... yes, Happy Birthday! 31 is good, did you get a whiskar under yer chin?

LMAO hell I'm not getting nakey I just had a baby I'm more saggy than I care to even discuss 3 more weeks before I can start the intense walking and getting fit hehehehe

Start you know better than to start blushing ill make you worse if you admit it ;)

Oh gosh was there a time limit on when we needed to start getting back into shape after having babies, 13 years has gone by and I think I am really really late. Oh, I see some relevance here, that is another thing I would like to change... I would like to get some gosh darn exercise... but my brain just tells me not too! LOL

Start you run around like a headless chicken after your clan and hubby all day every day you get more exercise than a keep fit freak ;)

I just have to get rid of my yucky tummy I'm really not impressed giggle

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Start you run around like a headless chicken after your clan and hubby all day every day you get more exercise than a keep fit freak ;)

I just have to get rid of my yucky tummy im really not impressed giggle

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Wow, something else relevant to this thread. I would like to change that too. LMAO
Keep going you are getting somewhere with me. LOL
Oh geeze CBW, you are beautiful! Heal first then do yer thang!:D

Giggle trust me I'm doing my exercises that the physio gave me and I've already dropped plenty of weight hehehehe just have to keep up the tummy tightenings giggle it will be flat again stuff the stretch marks they aren't ever going to go and there worth it as Theo is just heavenly :D

I'm not jumping out a cake naked.

Just putting that in here.

CBW--happy belated!

I would change whatever it is and everything it is that has made my wife say that she doesn't love me anymore.

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WOW that's exceptionaly heart felt that's what I would call a good thing to tell your wife and a great way to start a descussion.

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I would change whatever it is and everything it is that has made my wife say that she doesn't love me anymore.

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No sweet wewed, that isn't the answer...
If you did all of this would you still be you? Would you only do it to make her happy or do you think you NEED to change these things too? You change for you sweet, only you.

I agree with CBW, this is a wonderful way to start a conversation with her!

Yeah... unfortunately guys, I have asked her, told her, and everythinged to her, but it is out of my hands. I am hoping it is just one of the "for better or worse" times in our marriage, but I tell you what, it is getting tough to wake up everyday.

I would do anything for my wife, and I honestly don't feel I have changed. Unfortunately, a mistake I have made (cheating prior to our marriage) has thrown her love into question. I couldn't be more sorry, I would literally do anything, but I have learned over the last couple months that there is nothing I can do, but keep being myself.

If anyone has any wise advice for getting over something like this I would be all ears.

Im afraid hunn trust is obviously the question here if you are both willing then it takes time and work sadly it's the one thing in a reletionship that can't be fixed in a day, I truly wish you luck and be patient she is obviously worth it or you wouldn't admit it.

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LMAO hell im not getting nakey i just had a baby im more saggy than i care to even discuss 3 more weeks before i can start the intense walking and getting fit hehehehe

Start you know better than to start blushing ill make you worse if you admit it ;)

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Just a little something I wrote up... to help you realize how beautiful you actually are!

I hope you like it and it's not too corney

Creating a miracle

As I sit and reflect on what the world has received
I smile so quietly at the joy that was conceived
The little fingers and hands that melt my heart
Little eyes searching at his new start
The wonderment and smile that looks my way
Is more then a Mom needs to start her day
With my hands on my stomach and eyes closed so tight
I thank the stars above both day and night
That my body was chosen to carry this treasure
And the love in my heart could never be measured
For every ounce gained and every mark that now appears
Is a sign of beauty and evidence that I help to create something so dear
I reopen my eyes and take his little hand
And it is then I realize and begin to understand
That the changes to my body that have taken place
Makes me far more beautiful as they now leave a trace
Of something so precious, something that I have done
I created at miracle that I now loving call my Son.

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Yeah...unfortunately guys, I have asked her, told her, and everythinged to her, but it is out of my hands. I am hoping it is just one of the "for better or worse" times in our marriage, but I tell you what, it is getting tough to wake up everyday.

I would do anything for my wife, and I honestly don't feel I have changed. Unfortunately, a mistake I have made (cheating prior to our marriage) has thrown her love into question. I couldn't be more sorry, I would literally do anything, but I have learned over the last couple months that there is nothing I can do, but keep being myself.

If anyone has any wise advice for getting over something like this I would be all ears.

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Wewed,

I did write something on your other post... not sure it helped at all... but I tell you what
Your pain at what you have done and your strong love for her can only help her see
How much you do care.

I got to run and will write more later. Hang in there.